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Episode 173 – Lucid Dreaming, Gateways to the inner self w/ Robert Waggoner

A conversation with Robert Waggoner

Robert Waggoner, Author, speaker and Lucid Dreamer, is past President of the International Association for the Study of Dreams (IASD). For the past ten years, he has been the co-editor of the online magazine,…

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August 5, 2020
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Robert Waggoner, Author, speaker and Lucid Dreamer, is past President of the International Association for the Study of Dreams (IASD). For the past ten years, he has been the co-editor of the online magazine, The Lucid Dreaming Experience, the only ongoing publication devoted specifically to lucid dreaming. A lucid dreamer since 1975, he has logged more than 1,000 lucid dreams.

Robert frequently speaks on lucid dreaming at national and international dream conferences, workshops and college classrooms, like Sonoma State University, Iowa State University, University of Washington, University of Michigan-Ann Arbor and Evergreen State College.

Robert has been interviewed by CNN, CBS News and ABC News (KABC – Los Angeles) about the practice of lucid dreaming. His comments have appeared in media as diverse as DETAILS ,The Huffington Post, Pittsburgh Post Gazette, Popular Science and Brides magazine. During 2009-2010, he had a regular Iowa Public Radio show,discussing dreams and lucid dreams, and spoke with Utne Reader in 2015.

About Lucid Dreaming: Gateway to the inner-self:

Lucid Dreaming: Gateway to the Inner Self is the account of an extraordinarily talented lucid dreamer who goes beyond the boundaries of both psychology and religion. In the process, he stumbles upon the Inner Self. While lucid (consciously aware) in the dream state and able to act and interact with dream figures, objects, and settings, dream expert Robert Waggoner experienced something transformative and unexpected. He was able to interact consciously with the dream observer — the apparent Inner Self — within the dream. At first, this seemed shocking, even impossible since psychology normally alludes to such theoretical inner aspects as the Subliminal Self, the Center, the Internal Self-Helper in vague and theoretical ways.

Waggoner came to realize, however, that aware interaction with the Inner Self was not only possible but actual and highly inspiring. He concluded that while aware in the dream state, one has both a psychological tool and a platform from which to understand dreaming and the larger picture of man’s psyche as well. Waggoner proposes 5 stages of lucid dreaming and guides readers through them, offering advice for those who have never experienced the lucid dream state and suggestions for how experienced lucid dreamers can advance to a new level. Lucid Dreaming offers exciting insights and vivid illustrations that will intrigue not only avid dream workers but anyone who is interested in consciousness, identity, and the definition of reality.

In this episode we spoke to Robert about the Lucid Dream state – some of its religious and cultural implications, we lead you through the journey of what is involved with becoming lucid within a dream. We get into Robert’s personal journey and how he became one of the foremost lucid-dreamers in the world.  

This conversation will inform, entertain and enthrall you. 

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Editorial Reviews on “Lucid Dreaming”:

In this remarkable book, Robert Waggoner has brought lucid dreaming to a level that is simultaneously higher and deeper than any previous explorer has taken the topic. Both autobiographical and historical, theoretical and practical, psychodynamic and transpersonal, as well as adventurous and cautionary, Lucid Dreaming offers its readers instructions and insights that they will find nowhere else in the literature. They will learn how they can become awake and aware while asleep, and how this talent can change their lives. —Stanley Krippner, Ph.D., Professor of Psychology, Saybrook Graduate School and Research Center, San Francisco, Coauthor of Extraordinary Dreams and How To Work With Them

Lucid Dreaming IS a gateway to the Inner Self. Robert Waggoner s unique storytelling style is compelling reading an impressive exploration of the subject. The work is scholarly, fascinating, and, most of all, practical. —Christine Lemley, Executive Producer, DREAMTIME Series, WFYI/PBS-TV Indianapolis

Robert Waggoner admirably fulfills his aim of bringing lucidity to lucid dreaming. His book is distinguished by its wealth of first-hand experience, and his clear recognition that, instead of seeking to control and manipulate our dreams, we should use the gift of lucidity to navigate a deeper reality and grow into connection with a deeper and wiser self. He offers practical techniques and fascinating travelers tales to encourage us to experiment with interactive and precognitive dreaming and to explore the process of reality creation inside the dream matrix. This is an invitation to high adventure. —Robert Moss, Author of Conscious Dreaming and The Three ONLY Things: Tapping the Power of Dreams, Coincidence, and Imagination

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About the guest

Robert Waggoner

Robert Waggoner, Author, speaker and Lucid Dreamer, is past President of the International Association for the Study of Dreams (IASD). For the past ten years, he has been the co-editor of the online magazine, The Lucid Dreaming Experience, the only ongoing publication devoted specifically to lucid dreaming. A lucid dreamer since 1975, he has logged more than 1,000 lucid dreams.

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    My name is Xavier Katana.

  8. Xavier

    You are listening to The Human Experience.

  9. Xavier

    In this episode, we brought on Mr. Robert Wagoner.

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    He is considered one of the worldwide authorities on lucid dreaming.

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    CNN, CBS, ABC, and a wide range of other media outlets. This episode covers some of the main

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    points of the lucid dream experience, but I highly recommend you pick up a copy of Robert's book,

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    simply titled Lucid Dreaming. Robert was actually requested by many of you guys, so we brought him

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    on. Very happy with the outcome of this episode. It's a very fun, lighthearted episode that I hope

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    Without much further ado, ladies and gentlemen,

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    this is Mr. Robert Waggoner, where we discuss his book, Lucid Dreams. Enjoy.

  22. Xavier

    the human experience is accessing the gateway to the inner self with my guest, Mr. Robert

  23. Xavier / Robert Waggoner

    Wagoner. Robert, my good sir, welcome to HXP. Hey, thanks for having me. Robert, we're talking

  24. Xavier

    about your book today, Lucid Dreaming. Let's start at the beginning for you. I mean, how did

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    you get to the point where you decided to write this book? You know, I taught myself how to lucid

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    dream or become consciously aware of dreaming while in the dream state back in 1975 when I was a

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    junior in high school. And so after about 30 years of lucid dreaming, I thought there really

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    wasn't a good book on the lucid dreaming experience and some of the incredible things

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    when they become consciously aware within the dream.

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    And so around 2005 or so, I made my first attempt at writing a book

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    and got about 50 pages and stopped there.

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    But then in 2007, I went ahead and wrote this first book,

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    Lucid Dreaming, Gateway to the Inner Self.

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    And that's been followed up by a second book, Lucid Dreaming, Plain and Simple,

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    which is all about the tips and techniques.

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    But it was just out of my desire to kind of share with people the extraordinary depth of lucid dreaming.

  37. Xavier

    Okay. So, I mean, most people, I would say most people don't even remember their dreams at all, right?

  38. Xavier

    Exactly.

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    with that. And so, and, and I find that there's this sort of period for me anyway, there's this

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    sort of window where I, when I'm regaining consciousness, where dreams kind of absorb

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    back in and I have that chance. And if I miss that chance, I just, I lose all track or memory

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    of whatever I, whatever I was dreaming. You know, that's, that's how many people experience it. If

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    If they don't make some notes in the middle of the night or they don't make some dream notes immediately upon waking, within two or three or four minutes, the memory of the dream is totally gone.

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    And so to get into lucid dreaming or to dream recall, you just really have to focus upon waking up.

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    What was I just dreaming?

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    And write down some notes and make that the most important thing that you do when you wake up every morning.

  47. Robert Waggoner

    Okay, so I mean, lucid dreaming was coined by Frederick Van Eden?

  48. Robert Waggoner

    That's right. That's what most people would say. Historically, there's this gentleman in

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    the Netherlands. He was kind of a scientist. He also coined the term psychotherapist.

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    But Frederick Van Eden, he was a scientist, but also a little bit of a mystic. And back around the

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    turn of the century at 1900, he began to realize he was having lucid dreams. And he came up with

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    this term, I think when he gave a presentation to the Society for Psychical Research in London

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    in like 1913 or something. But yeah, a lucid dream is any dream in which you realize within

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    the dream that you're dreaming. And so oftentimes you'll have that moment when you say in the dream,

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    oh this is a dream i mean that's the only explanation for how you can see a cow flying

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    you know across the sky right or something like that and so so it's a it's a wonderful

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    moment because at that moment everything shifts you realize that you're surrounded by dream stuff

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    and dream figures and and a dream setting and and it's just totally changes the entire

  59. Xavier / Robert Waggoner

    dream experience. It fascinates me that we sleep. I mean, that all humans need sleep. I mean,

  60. Xavier

    most species on the planet sleep at some point or another. I mean, I think it was Terence McKenna

  61. Xavier

    who said something quite profound that because of the way that the earth is moving, there's

  62. Xavier

    always a section of the human population that is asleep and a section that is kind of awake.

  63. Xavier

    I mean, just a kind of side note there, but I mean, within lucid dreaming and dreaming itself,

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    I mean, how did you get to a point where you were so proficient at this? Because it seems like such

  65. Xavier

    a hard thing to do, to realize you're dreaming, first to even remember your dreams, but then

  66. Xavier

    to actually realize you're dreaming and then take control of the dream.

  67. Robert Waggoner

    Yeah. You know what, just to carry on with that line of thinking for a second, if you sit down and think that probably every night we spend about two, two and a half hours in the dream state, every one of us, two and two and a half hours in the dream state.

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    I mean, by the time you're 11 years old, you will have spent one entire year's worth of time in dreaming, in this state of dreaming.

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    And it's incredible that, you know, scientifically we know a little bit about it, but there's a lot that hasn't been figured out.

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    And that's one of the beautiful aspects about lucid dreaming.

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    When you're consciously aware within the dream state, you have the ability to explore, to experiment, and to do all that kind of thing to kind of get a new understanding of dreaming.

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    But for me, how I became proficient was that, so back in 1975, I was reading this book by Carlos Castaneda called Journey to Ixland.

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    And in this book, his shamanic teacher, Don Juan, suggests to him that he finds his hands in the dream state and become consciously aware.

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    And that was a totally radically new idea for me.

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    And I wondered if that could actually happen.

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    But there wasn't a technique.

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    Because I knew a little bit about self-suggestion and hypnosis, this is what I did as a young guy.

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    Each night before I'd go to sleep, I'd just look at my hands while telling myself over and over in my head,

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    tonight in my dreams, I'll see my hands and realize I'm dreaming.

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    Tonight in my dreams, I'll see my hands and realize I'm dreaming.

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    And I would say that for about five minutes until I became naturally sleepy and went to bed.

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    And I did this for three nights.

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    And then on the third night, I was walking through my high school hallway, and suddenly, just like they were spring-loaded, my hands popped right in front of my face.

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    And I thought, oh, my hands.

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    This is a dream.

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    And so that was my first consciously intended or induced lucid dream experience.

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    And so I continued with that because it was so much fun.

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    And it's so powerful and almost transcendent when you have this kind of peak experience of realizing within a dream that you're dreaming.

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    And so I seem to have a kind of a natural facility for it.

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    And I just continued going deeper and deeper into lucid dreaming.

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    But what really made me the happiest was when in 1980, 81, when finally the scientific evidence for it came out.

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    because up until that time, I would tell my friends about it,

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    and they told me, oh, you can't become conscious in the unconscious of dreaming.

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    No one can do that.

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    And I told them, you know, it's easy.

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    Here's how you do it.

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    And some of my friends even did it back then.

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    But it wasn't until 81 the evidence came out.

  99. Xavier

    Interesting. Okay. So you became proficient just by kind of programming psychologically that you were going to see your hands.

  100. Xavier

    And then through that trigger, you realized you were in a dream and then you started controlling it.

  101. Robert Waggoner

    Right, right. So it's kind of like Ivan Pavlov, the Russian physiologist.

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    he would ring a bill every time he presented food to dogs.

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    And after he did this 10 or 20 times, he could ring a bill and suddenly the dogs would salivate.

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    So in psychology, that's what you call a conditioned response.

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    And so basically, I conditioned myself that whenever I saw my hands,

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    the first idea that would come to my head is, this is a dream.

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    And so, for example, I might in a dream be climbing up a ladder and see my hands and think,

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    I remember talking to one person who had read my book, and he said that he was very successful with this technique.

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    But one time his hands popped in front of his face, and he didn't get it.

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    And then all of a sudden the hands started slapping him in the face until he realized, oh, this is a dream.

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    And so you realize that you can just use simple self-suggestion and kind of this behavioral conditioning to achieve it.

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    But that's how I did it back in 1975 before the scientific evidence emerged.

  113. Xavier

    So, I mean, we're diving into the psyche here.

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    I mean, a lot of this, because I feel like, I mean, I have been meditating and I've been

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    solidly meditating for the last, I don't know, 10 or 15 years.

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    And at the beginning stages of that, I think I was purposely attempting to go out of body.

  117. Robert Waggoner

    And I was intrigued by the out of body state.

  118. Xavier / Robert Waggoner

    compare lucid dreaming to out-of-body experiences? Right, right. So normally when I give workshops,

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    I tell people that a lucid dream in an out-of-body is basically like a house cat and a mountain lion.

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    They share some similarities, but they're two different animals. And so again, a lucid dream,

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    the definition is realizing within a dream that you're dreaming. So you see something impossible

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    happens and you could think, wait a second, oh, this is a dream. But think about out-of-body

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    experiences, those kinds of reports. Someone has a car accident and they're thrown out the

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    windshield and they're laying in the middle of the highway and suddenly they're seeing everything

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    from 20 feet above the accident site. I mean, that's an out-of-body experience. That's an

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    experience that didn't begin with realizing you're in a dream. So by definition, you know,

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    Definitely two different experiences.

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    But where it gets complicated is this.

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    Around the same time I taught myself how to lucid dream, I would have these other experiences, which I later came to realize were out-of-bodies.

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    But basically what would happen, I'd be lying in bed, getting ready to fall asleep.

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    And then I'd start to hear this kind of humming, buzzing noise.

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    And it sounded like a thousand bumblebees around my head or someone playing a digger or do or something like that.

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    I'd feel this strange energy, and then I'd realize, well, wait a second.

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    I'm viewing my bedroom, or what appears to be my bedroom, from five or six feet above the bed.

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    How did I do this?

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    I started having these strange experiences like this.

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    One day, I just happened to ask one of my older brothers if he'd ever had an experience like that.

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    He told me, oh, you're having out-of-body experiences.

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    book by Robert Monroe you can read about and see what this is all about. But you begin to realize

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    that phenomenologically they're different. So that kind of experience, you know, there's buzzing,

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    there's energy, sometimes you roll out, sometimes you shoot out, sometimes you see these wispy

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    kind of silver colored arms of light or whatever, you know, your kind of astral arms,

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    if you want to think of it that way.

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    And you realize that that's a totally different experience than lucid dreaming.

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    The beautiful thing about lucid dreaming, though,

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    is that it is simply almost always joyful fun.

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    When you have out-of-body experiences,

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    especially when it begins to happen if you're a teenager,

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    sometimes these can be utterly frightful events.

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    There's all this energy and humming, and you don't know what's going on.

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    I mean, no one's prepared you for it.

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    And so the sad thing, though, is now these two experiences are being intermixed.

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    And there's some people like Stephen LaBerge who say that out-of-bodies are actually probably a variant lucid, a type of lucid dream.

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    Right.

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    But again, if you get shot out of your windshield on the highway and you're laying there and seeing everything from 30 feet above you, your physical body, that's obviously not realizing within a dream that you're dreaming.

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    So they're two definitely different experiences and there's a lot of phenomenological differences too.

  157. Xavier

    Yeah, it seems like they're completely different experiences.

  158. Xavier

    Robert Monroe, hugely recommend any of his material.

  159. Robert Waggoner / Xavier

    a big hero of mine. So let's, I mean, let's talk about some tools that, I mean, because we can use

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    this state as a form of learning, right? Exactly, exactly. It's a wonderful way first to kind of

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    realize that dreaming itself is not random, like some scientists say it is, that actually in a

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    lucid dream, you begin to realize that there's certain principles and rules. And so just to give

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    your listeners a kind of a rough idea, here would be some rules that you learn very quickly in

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    lucid dreaming. One rule is don't get too excited. Because if you get too excited, normally what

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    happens, and I mean really excited, if you get too excited, then normally you pop out of the lucid

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    dream. And so around the world, universally it seems, lucid dreamers report that if they get

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    too excited, you know, upon becoming lucid, they'll immediately pop out of the lucid dream.

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    So that's kind of one of the basic rules. Another rule was one that Kastaneda brought up in that

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    book Journey to Excellence. His shamanic teacher told him, don't stare at things when you become

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    consciously aware in a lucid dream. And I remember in my very first intended lucid dream,

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    I did that. I stepped outside of the high school and I was looking at the bricks on the

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    administration building and I began to notice the detail. And then it was like the dream started

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    shaking, like this lucid dream started shaking. And I realized, oh, it's going to collapse.

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    And I remember that Don Juan told Carlos to look back at his hands to renew the power of dreaming if that ever occurred.

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    And so I did that and managed to prolong the lucid dream.

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    But that's just another aspect of it.

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    In regular dreams, we have rapid eye movement.

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    Our eyes are moving all over the place.

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    But in lucid dreams, your eyes should still continue to move a little bit.

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    something there's something about that that within four or five seconds will make the lucid dream want

  181. Xavier

    to collapse it's so interesting i feel like eventually technology will get to a point where

  182. Xavier

    we will be able to induce this state using uh just gear like that we hook up to our brains i mean i

  183. Xavier

    know that they have different tools like like glasses that you can wear that kind of flash

  184. Xavier

    a red light to end and that way it kind of reminds you that you're dreaming you can wear those

  185. Xavier

    I mean, so you mentioned around the world.

  186. Xavier

    Do you notice that people, different people, have different proclivities to lucid dreaming around the world?

  187. Robert Waggoner

    Well, they've done some research surveys of college students and asked them, have you ever become consciously aware of dreaming while in the dream state?

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    And when they surveyed students in the U.S., about 72% said that, yes, they'd had that experience at least once.

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    And about 25% say they have that experience at least once a month.

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    And the results were roughly the same in the Netherlands and Germany and Western Europe.

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    In Japan, though, the response was 42%.

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    So only 42% of the Japanese students said they'd had that experience.

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    And so it makes you wonder if the interpretation or the way it was translated didn't get across very thoughtfully so that students understood.

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    But altogether, when you look at the total population, a little over half the population is having or has had the lucid dream experience.

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    Now, there are some people, though, who lucid dream virtually every night.

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    And at first I began to explore this a little bit because I co-edited a magazine called The Lucid Dreaming Experience.

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    And I wanted to find out what's behind this becoming lucid every night.

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    And my theory was that these people had had childhood nightmares.

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    And so they taught themselves how to differentiate waking from dreaming.

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    Because if you're going to have a childhood nightmare every night, you

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    want to be ready and vigilant and know when you're in the dream state so you're prepared for the witches or the monsters or the zombies or whatever.

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    And so when I began to talk to people who said they had lucid dreams every night, the majority, that was their situation.

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    They had childhood nightmares that were really severe and to kind of deal with that, they taught themselves how to become lucidly aware.

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    because when you realize it's a dream, then you can fly away from the witches or you can

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    make some accommodation. But then I began to meet people who that wasn't their case. And one woman

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    told me that she had a neurotic habit. And I asked her what that was. And she said she had a neurotic

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    habit of 20 or 30 times throughout the day asking herself, what was I just doing? What was I just

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    doing. And so if she is folding the clothes in the laundry room, you know, what was I just doing?

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    Oh, yeah, I was making tea for myself. And so she would do that in her dreams. She would ask

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    herself, what was I just doing? And then she would remember that she was putting on her pajamas.

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    And then she realized, oh, this must be a dream. And so I began to see that people could develop

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    a lucid mindset. So this is kind of a state of examining their perceived environment very closely

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    or have some recurring habit like examining what you were just doing, something that made you more

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    mindful about your space. And in that way, you could develop a lucid mindset. But you're right,

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    around the world, basically half the people report lucid dreaming, and about 25% of the people

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    kind of a natural talent to lucid dream. Interesting. So it seems that a human is a

  217. Xavier / Robert Waggoner

    human and we all basically can't have the ability to lucid dream. I really think so. And a lot of it,

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    like we began talking about, is dreaming as a basic experience is devalued in society.

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    People don't pay attention to their dreams anymore. But you can think back 2,000 years

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    before Netflix and before TV and before all that, I mean, dreams probably were the most exciting

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    things that were happening in people's lives if they were living in some, you know, small village

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    along the Nile. I mean, you know, in your dreams, you could interact with the deceased, you can fly,

  223. Robert Waggoner

    you can do all sorts of amazing things and have all kinds of interesting experiences.

  224. Robert Waggoner

    So, but in this current culture, dreaming is really devalued. People don't talk about it,

  225. Robert Waggoner

    kind of psychologically therapeutic terms. And that's all the more they think about it.

  226. Xavier

    I mean, I would say that television probably sucks the ability to lucid dream out of you.

  227. Xavier / Robert Waggoner

    All the flashing images, your brain just can't handle it. So really, there's a chapter in your

  228. Xavier

    book called The Varieties of Dream Figures. I find this fascinating. And you say that these can

  229. Robert Waggoner

    be anywhere from symbols to different archetypes. I mean, what generates this? Is it just the psyche

  230. Robert Waggoner

    that's kind of generating this dream figure that comes to you? Or how does that work?

  231. Robert Waggoner

    Yeah, you know, it's interesting. So when you become consciously aware in a dream,

  232. Robert Waggoner

    I mean, we're just kind of, as social beings, we're kind of socialized to interact with

  233. Robert Waggoner

    other figures in the dream. And what's interesting is that oftentimes lucid dreamers would

  234. Robert Waggoner

    go up to a dream figure and they would say, hey, do you know this is a dream?

  235. Robert Waggoner

    And almost again, universally, the dream figures would frown at them or just look upset.

  236. Robert Waggoner

    And there's been a number of examples of lucid dreamers going up to a dream figure saying,

  237. Robert Waggoner

    hey do you know I do you know that I'm dreaming you and then the dream figure responding how do

  238. Robert Waggoner

    you know I'm not dreaming you wow and then the lucid dreamer would say well look I can fly and

  239. Robert Waggoner

    then the dream figure would say well look I can fly too and they would keep trying to one-up each

  240. Robert Waggoner

    other to see who had the most abilities there in the dream state but but what it shows you

  241. Robert Waggoner

    is this. Dream figures vary. Sometimes you'll ask a dream figure a question and you'll get

  242. Robert Waggoner

    gobbledygook for an answer. Or sometimes it'll just turn away. But other times you'll interact

  243. Robert Waggoner

    with dream figures who seem very aware and conscious and alert. And sometimes they'll give

  244. Robert Waggoner

    you incredible explanations. Like, for example, I remember one of my first experiments as an early

  245. Robert Waggoner

    lucid dreamer back in the early 80s was asking a dream figure that happened to be a friend of mine

  246. Robert Waggoner

    to explain a dream symbol to me. And so within the lucid dream, I picked up a dream symbol and I said,

  247. Robert Waggoner

    hey, Andrea, what does this represent? So I was holding a jewel, a gem in my hand, and she says,

  248. Robert Waggoner

    unconsciousness. And I woke up thinking, wow, a dream figure analyzed a symbol within a lucid dream

  249. Robert Waggoner

    and did a pretty good job of it. But what happens then as a lucid dreamer, as you go deeper into

  250. Robert Waggoner

    this, you think, well, wait a second. Is it just telling me what I already know? Or is it just

  251. Robert Waggoner

    giving me an acceptable answer, you know, something that's subconsciously in the back of my mind?

  252. Robert Waggoner

    And so to play around with that, if you want to, you can take this much deeper.

  253. Robert Waggoner

    For example, various people on becoming lucidly aware, oftentimes people become lucidly aware when they see a deceased relative.

  254. Robert Waggoner

    Because they say, wait a second, Uncle John, he's been dead for 10 years.

  255. Xavier

    Oh, this must be a dream.

  256. Xavier

    And then they become lucidly aware.

  257. Robert Waggoner

    I remember one time in one of my workshops, a woman reported that her uncle appeared in a dream.

  258. Robert Waggoner

    She became lucidly aware.

  259. Robert Waggoner

    And then he came up to her and said, if you want to understand the family secret, because this woman reported there was a family secret in her family.

  260. Robert Waggoner

    He goes, to understand the family secret, you have to go to the county courthouse, go up to this particular room on the second floor, and then ask for this specific file.

  261. Robert Waggoner

    file from the clerk. And so the woman, you know, she's a good lucid dreamer. She paid attention to,

  262. Robert Waggoner

    you know, the exact instructions. She woke up and wrote it down. A few days later, she went to the

  263. Robert Waggoner

    county courthouse and she asked for that specific file in that specific room. And then it came to

  264. Robert Waggoner

    her, this file that was of the family battle about the sale of some land, you know, 10 years before

  265. Robert Waggoner

    And so when that happens, that kind of takes it to a different level because now a dream figure has given you information outside of your knowing.

  266. Robert Waggoner

    Right.

  267. Robert Waggoner

    And so that's why I try to get across this idea of dream figures varying.

  268. Robert Waggoner

    And normally you can see it in their eyes, just like if you're talking to a human.

  269. Robert Waggoner

    if they don't seem to be very alert or if they're not looking you in the eye or whatever

  270. Robert Waggoner

    I would just ignore them altogether but some dream figures seem very conscious and alive

  271. Robert Waggoner

    and in fact I've had a number of lucid dreams where it's obvious that the dream figure was

  272. Robert Waggoner

    trying to get me to be lucidly aware because when I become lucidly aware suddenly it congratulates

  273. Robert Waggoner

    me on becoming lucidly aware. And then I'll realize, oh, this same dream figure tried to

  274. Robert Waggoner

    get me to become lucidly aware the night before, and I failed. And so you begin to see that there

  275. Robert Waggoner

    truly is varieties of dream figures. All dream figures are not created equal.

  276. Xavier

    It's very, very intriguing because we're bouncing into the sort of esoteric and the metaphysical

  277. Xavier

    and like precognition determining kind of things and finding information that we wouldn't otherwise

  278. Xavier

    have. I find it, I find it interesting that, um, that the only real difference that we have,

  279. Xavier

    the only difference that, that we have between knowing that we're dreaming or sleep is that

  280. Xavier

    every night I, I laid down to go to sleep. I closed my eyes and that process of waking up.

  281. Xavier / Robert Waggoner

    But if that process was erased, I mean, how would I know the difference between this being the, quote, real world and that being the dream world?

  282. Robert Waggoner

    Exactly. One thing that I would say about lucid dreaming is if you're good at lucid dreaming, you're going to question many basic assumptions that you've just collected over the course of your life.

  283. Robert Waggoner

    you know, what constitutes reality? Is it just a matter of consensus? You know, what is the minimal

  284. Robert Waggoner

    definition of reality? What would that be? Because when you become consciously aware in a lucid dream

  285. Robert Waggoner

    and you realize that it's a principled environment, it has certain rules, you begin to think that,

  286. Robert Waggoner

    oh, I'm learning here in my subconscious or unconscious level of my mind. And then when you

  287. Robert Waggoner

    further and begin to interact with these dream figures who seem more aware than you do or have

  288. Robert Waggoner

    information outside of your knowing that then it really is like an alternate reality but it's a

  289. Xavier / Robert Waggoner

    alternate reality that occurs in the lucid dream space yeah it's fascinating really intriguing

  290. Xavier

    have you

  291. Xavier

    seen a movie called Waking Life?

  292. Robert Waggoner

    Yes, I have. You know, I think that's one of the better movies that have to do with Lucid Dreaming,

  293. Robert Waggoner

    because it brings up so many philosophical questions and also has that kind of dreamy spirit to it in the way the figures change throughout the movie.

  294. Xavier

    Yeah, that's Richard Linklater, the director of that. Phenomenal movie, highly recommend it. I mean, let's move into some of your own personal experiences with lucid dreaming. What would be one of your top lucid dreams?

  295. Robert Waggoner

    Wow. You know, what happened to me, so I taught myself in 1975 how to lucid dream, and I continued on with the practice and all.

  296. Robert Waggoner

    But one of the first things that happened to me was 1985, I was part of a three-year lucid dreaming group, exploration group, founded by a woman, Linda Lane Maguillon.

  297. Robert Waggoner

    And each month we had a goal to achieve.

  298. Robert Waggoner

    And one month the goal was become lucidly aware and find out what the dream figures in your lucid dream represent.

  299. Robert Waggoner

    And so I thought, that's pretty easy.

  300. Robert Waggoner

    I've done that before.

  301. Robert Waggoner

    But what happened, it was really interesting.

  302. Robert Waggoner

    I think it was March of 85.

  303. Robert Waggoner

    I was on a business trip out to Chicago.

  304. Robert Waggoner

    I remember I had to submit my lucid dream for that month.

  305. Robert Waggoner

    And so that night I became lucidly aware and followed a woman into an office.

  306. Robert Waggoner

    And so now I'm inside this office.

  307. Robert Waggoner

    I know it's a lucid dream.

  308. Robert Waggoner

    There's a receptionist, two women sitting there, and a man in a three-piece suit, an older man with kind of a gold chain in his pocket and all that.

  309. Robert Waggoner

    So in my very nice Midwestern way, I just walked up to him and I said, excuse me, what do you represent?

  310. Robert Waggoner

    And the most incredible thing happened at that moment.

  311. Robert Waggoner

    the dream figure replying, all of a sudden, a voice boomed out a partial response from high

  312. Robert Waggoner

    above him. This voice just boomed out this response. And the response didn't make complete

  313. Robert Waggoner

    sense. And so I looked up into the sky and just asked, you know, like, now what? And then it

  314. Robert Waggoner

    boomed out a full response that this gentleman represented the acquired characteristics,

  315. Robert Waggoner

    of the happy giver. And so I thought, okay, I've done the assignment. I've figured out what this

  316. Robert Waggoner

    guy represents. And so I'm going to wake up and write this down before I forget. And so I woke

  317. Robert Waggoner

    up and wrote it down. And as I was writing it down, I remembered the day before I'd been in

  318. Robert Waggoner

    Chicago and met a woman who was the head of a nonprofit. And she told me, oh, the only reason

  319. Robert Waggoner

    people give to my organization is to get their name in the annual report. And I thought, boy,

  320. Robert Waggoner

    she is such an unhappy receiver. And as I walked away from her, I thought in my head, oh, the Lord

  321. Robert Waggoner

    loves a happy giver, but because she was such an unhappy receiver. And so I realized this was a

  322. Robert Waggoner

    little bit of day residue. But the important element of this was after that, I began to wonder,

  323. Robert Waggoner

    because his voice had boomed out the response and not the dream figure, was there an awareness

  324. Robert Waggoner

    behind the dream. So, could you in a lucid dream stopped relating to the dream figures and the

  325. Robert Waggoner

    dream environment and just shout out questions to your subconscious mind or this non-visible

  326. Robert Waggoner

    awareness behind the dream? And so, starting in 1985, I began to do that. I would become

  327. Robert Waggoner

    consciously aware, and I would shout out questions like, hey, dream, show me something important for

  328. Robert Waggoner

    me to see. And then the incredible thing is the entire lucid dream would change, and I'd be

  329. Robert Waggoner

    looking at something incredible. And so suddenly, I felt like I found the most creative aspect of

  330. Robert Waggoner

    the lucid dream. You know, in political shows, sometimes they'll say, follow the money, or,

  331. Robert Waggoner

    or they'll have kind of a basic premise.

  332. Robert Waggoner

    If you want to understand the truth of something, follow the money.

  333. Robert Waggoner

    But in lucid dreaming and in the subconscious or unconscious mind,

  334. Robert Waggoner

    if you want to understand something, I say follow the creativity.

  335. Robert Waggoner

    If you follow the creativity and find the most creative thing,

  336. Robert Waggoner

    then you're really on to something.

  337. Robert Waggoner

    And it was interesting.

  338. Robert Waggoner

    That year, 1985, Stephen LaBerge's first book on lucid dreaming came out.

  339. Robert Waggoner

    he did something very similar, but not exactly the same. In that first book of his, he suggests

  340. Robert Waggoner

    that lucid dreamers become aware and then announce that they surrender to the highest

  341. Robert Waggoner

    and see what happens. And so you become lucidly aware, you ignore the dream figures, and you

  342. Robert Waggoner

    announce, now I surrender to the highest. And normally, he said some of his most profound lucid

  343. Robert Waggoner

    dreams occurred when he surrendered. But when I read that, I thought, okay, who are you surrendering

  344. Robert Waggoner

    And it's interesting in that book, he just refused to say, he said, oh, it's not important to think about what or who we're surrendering to.

  345. Robert Waggoner

    But that's why I called my first book Lucid Dreaming Gateway to the Inner Self.

  346. Robert Waggoner

    as you begin to interact with this awareness behind the dream it it seems to have the qualities

  347. Robert Waggoner

    and characteristics of what a person would call an inner self and what what even Carl Jung kind

  348. Robert Waggoner

    of gave as a characteristics of a second psychic system within our unconscious mind yeah wow quite

  349. Xavier

    intriguing. You know, I really want to bring up the aspect of drugs and dreaming. I mean,

  350. Xavier

    it seems like just DMT, DMT is produced naturally in the brain. So, I mean, if DMT is producing

  351. Xavier

    these dream states, then could we say that either ingesting DMT, taking DMT,

  352. Xavier

    ayahuasca are those forms i mean could we relate this to lucid dreaming well it's interesting um

  353. Robert Waggoner

    i don't have any firsthand experience with dmt or ayahuasca i have read ayahuasca experiences though

  354. Robert Waggoner

    in and anthropological reports and and firsthand personal anecdotal reports and and they do seem

  355. Robert Waggoner

    very similar to a lucid dream because the person is consciously aware within the experience they

  356. Robert Waggoner

    they know they're having the experience but but the one thing about it in the ayahuasca experience

  357. Robert Waggoner

    you can tell that it's kind of being chemically mediated because the person is kind of following

  358. Robert Waggoner

    the the flow of chemicals and then once the chemicals you know finally degrade within them

  359. Robert Waggoner

    the other side. But during the experience, they seem very lucid. Sometimes they have conversations

  360. Robert Waggoner

    with the figures that they meet. Also, it's interesting that in some of these ayahuasca

  361. Robert Waggoner

    experiences, people report the same thing of serpents or this, that, and the other nature

  362. Robert Waggoner

    aspects that come to meet them or talk to them and all. Now, when it comes to DMT, I've had some

  363. Robert Waggoner

    experiences and all, they seem a little bit more like what I would call what an experienced

  364. Robert Waggoner

    lucid dreamer might have.

  365. Robert Waggoner

    As you go deeper and deeper into lucid dreaming, sometimes you have some very abstract experiences.

  366. Robert Waggoner

    For example, instead of meeting a dream figure, you meet a ball of light or you meet a geometric

  367. Robert Waggoner

    form of light that communicates something to you.

  368. Robert Waggoner

    And so that's, you know, especially for someone like myself, when you're not expecting to meet a geometric form of light, it's kind of a wild thing.

  369. Robert Waggoner

    You're consciously aware.

  370. Xavier

    You interact with it.

  371. Robert Waggoner

    But sometimes when you hear about the DMT experiences, sometimes it makes you feel like they've gotten to that level.

  372. Robert Waggoner

    But what I do want to say, though, about lucid dreaming is lucid dreaming is kind of a natural progression through oneself, through your belief system, through your fears, because you realize that your fears kind of inhibit your exploration within the lucid dream state.

  373. Robert Waggoner

    So until you resolve those fears, you can't go any deeper.

  374. Robert Waggoner

    But in some of these chemically induced states, a lot of times the people are just, you know, the chemicals are pushing them into some really heavy-duty stuff.

  375. Robert Waggoner

    And how much they're really learning from the experience or how much they're really growing from the experience is a little bit hard to tell.

  376. Robert Waggoner

    but in lucid dreaming where it's kind of a natural progression you realize that

  377. Robert Waggoner

    you know you naturally have to conquer your fears you naturally have to work through limiting

  378. Robert Waggoner

    beliefs in order to grow this experience and go deeper and deeper and deeper yeah i definitely

  379. Xavier

    get what you're saying a friend of mine made an interesting analogy he said that um that using

  380. Xavier

    drugs to reach this type of state is kind of like being a tourist or getting a ticket to an

  381. Xavier

    amusement park and kind of getting on the ride. And you take the ride, but when it's over,

  382. Xavier

    your memory of it is not the same. And you're simply a tourist in these states. Whereas when

  383. Xavier

    you're actually

  384. Xavier

    meditating and doing the work to reach this state. Because I do believe that reaching a state of lucid dreaming and dreaming consciously, it does take this sort of mental exercise, it does take this mental work. So, I mean, what are your thoughts on that?

  385. Robert Waggoner

    It's exactly the case.

  386. Robert Waggoner

    In lucid dreaming, you realize that it's not really about control.

  387. Robert Waggoner

    Because how can you say you control the lucid dream when you ask a dream figure, oh, do you know I'm dreaming you?

  388. Robert Waggoner

    And then it gives you an unexpected response like, how do you know I'm not dreaming you?

  389. Robert Waggoner

    So after a while, you realize a lucid dream isn't about control.

  390. Robert Waggoner

    Sure, the lucid dreamer influences things, but fundamentally what lucid dreaming is about is aware relating.

  391. Robert Waggoner

    You begin to relate to the contents of your subconscious or unconscious mind with greater awareness.

  392. Robert Waggoner

    This aware relating begins to show you limiting beliefs you have, fears that you have, issues about focus, fixations that you might have.

  393. Robert Waggoner

    And as you work through them, you begin to grow and grow and grow.

  394. Robert Waggoner

    And you realize you're growing because you go more deeply into lucid dreaming.

  395. Robert Waggoner

    I remember I was going so deeply into lucid dreaming that at one point, I began to see in the sky above me a banner flying saying,

  396. Robert Waggoner

    Trust, nothing to fear.

  397. Robert Waggoner

    And sometimes I'd hear a voice behind me say, Trust, nothing to fear.

  398. Robert Waggoner

    because as you go deeper and deeper and deeper,

  399. Robert Waggoner

    and this is something that Tenzin Nguyen Yuen Rinpoche,

  400. Robert Waggoner

    who wrote the Tibetan Yogas of Dream and Sleep, said,

  401. Robert Waggoner

    he said really the dream yoga path, the lucid dreaming path,

  402. Robert Waggoner

    is of increasing fearlessness.

  403. Robert Waggoner

    You know, you face your fears and you resolve them.

  404. Robert Waggoner

    You work through them.

  405. Robert Waggoner

    But so lucid dreaming is a very natural process.

  406. Robert Waggoner

    It's one where you begin to see yourself and just not this ego waking self, but this larger awareness that you're part and parcel of.

  407. Xavier

    Interesting.

  408. Xavier

    I mean, you know, when we get into the science of dreaming and rapid eye movement, and we're talking about different neurotransmitters that are happening inside the brain.

  409. Xavier

    I mean, do you think that perhaps in the future that there could be a sort of pill that?

  410. Xavier

    that when I take melatonin, I tend to have deeper and more clear and even sometimes lucid dreams.

  411. Xavier

    And do you think that there it's, I mean, do you think it's possible that we could invent something

  412. Robert Waggoner

    that, that would allow us to lucid dream? Right, right. No, I definitely think, you know, there's,

  413. Robert Waggoner

    there's basically three gateways into lucid dreaming. First is this kind of mental gateway

  414. Robert Waggoner

    of learning practices, of being more aware, of suggesting before you sleep that you'll be aware

  415. Robert Waggoner

    in the dream state and become lucid. But there's also this biochemical path. And, you know, for

  416. Robert Waggoner

    some people, you know, melatonin might help. Some people take one of the B vitamins that helps to

  417. Robert Waggoner

    enhance their memory right before they go to sleep. But there has been some work by Stephen

  418. Robert Waggoner

    on a specific active ingredient in galantamine,

  419. Robert Waggoner

    which is a drug used for people with Alzheimer's

  420. Robert Waggoner

    to make them more aware and alert in waking physical reality.

  421. Robert Waggoner

    But he realized that this galantamine also seemed to help people become lucidly aware.

  422. Robert Waggoner

    Now, I do want to say that this is an herb that in the U.S. is legal that people can purchase.

  423. Robert Waggoner

    But it's really a heavy-duty substance.

  424. Robert Waggoner

    So I don't want people to take it just thinking that it's like B6 or something like that.

  425. Robert Waggoner

    It's really a heavy-duty thing.

  426. Robert Waggoner

    And it's also something that you take after you've been asleep for five hours or so.

  427. Robert Waggoner

    You don't take it when you fall asleep.

  428. Robert Waggoner

    You take it after you wake up after about five hours, and then you take it.

  429. Robert Waggoner

    But for some people, it appears to help them become lucidly aware.

  430. Robert Waggoner

    Now, one thing I do want to say, though, is I had a good friend, Ed Kellogg, who has a Ph.D. in biochemistry from Duke.

  431. Robert Waggoner

    And so he decided to investigate whether the placebo aspect plays a role here.

  432. Robert Waggoner

    And so what he did, he got 20 capsules, and in half of them, he put this active ingredient, galantamine, and in half of them, he put something cornstarch or sugar or something.

  433. Xavier

    I can't remember which.

  434. Robert Waggoner

    But he numbered them all and gave them to a friend.

  435. Robert Waggoner

    And then on particular days, he'd ask his friend for one of the pills, but telling his friend to keep the number so he'd know whether it's one of the galantamine pills or one of the placebo pills.

  436. Robert Waggoner

    And Ed said that after he went through his study, he said that he actually had more lucid dreams on the night that he took the placebo.

  437. Robert Waggoner

    And he said he couldn't believe it because on some of those nights, he had all the side effects of galantamine-induced lucid dreams.

  438. Robert Waggoner

    You know, they're much longer.

  439. Robert Waggoner

    They're more stable.

  440. Robert Waggoner

    Sometimes they're a little bit more fantastical.

  441. Robert Waggoner

    but sometimes you have bodily feelings of kind of feeling very hot and in the morning you're kind of drugged out like you've had –

  442. Xavier

    Too much to drink.

  443. Robert Waggoner

    Too much to drink, exactly.

  444. Robert Waggoner

    And so what's interesting about this is that even though there might be a biochemical doorway, and even though someday we might have the perfect thing that gets us all into lucid dreaming just by pumping a pill, that still there's this placebo aspect that can't be avoided.

  445. Xavier

    I mean, it's really fascinating because, I mean, the placebo trick is really interesting. It just shows you how powerful the mind is and how powerful our brains are that we're somehow able to produce this state by just taking like a sugar pill.

  446. Robert Waggoner

    You know, it's interesting. When my first book came out, a fan of the book sent me his device as kind of a dream mask that you'd put on your eyes before you go to sleep.

  447. Robert Waggoner

    And it would flash lights in your eyes when it realized you were dreaming.

  448. Robert Waggoner

    And so he sent me this thing he had created, and it had all these strange instructions.

  449. Robert Waggoner

    And the first night I set it up, but I woke up in the middle of the night and I realized the silly thing wasn't working.

  450. Robert Waggoner

    And so then the next night, I set it up again and got it all configured.

  451. Robert Waggoner

    And I thought, okay, this time it's really going to work.

  452. Robert Waggoner

    And that night, I'm driving down 13th Street.

  453. Robert Waggoner

    All of a sudden, I see there's a car in the ditch, and its lights are flashing red, red, red.

  454. Robert Waggoner

    And then I think, oh, red lights.

  455. Robert Waggoner

    This is a dream.

  456. Robert Waggoner

    And I became lucidly aware and had a wonderful lucid dream.

  457. Robert Waggoner

    But you know what?

  458. Robert Waggoner

    When I woke up and looked at this little machine device, I realized once again it hadn't worked.

  459. Robert Waggoner

    and that my mind, just by expecting red lights flashing, had created red lights flashing.

  460. Robert Waggoner

    So you're right, this placebo aspect, the incredible creativity of belief and expectation in our mind often results in experience.

  461. Xavier

    Yeah, yeah, it's intriguing to me.

  462. Xavier

    I find this whole aspect of, you know, just that we go to sleep and that, you know, dreams represent these different structures where we're either resolving like some conflict or just kind of dumping information out that we experience through the day.

  463. Xavier

    And then eventually getting to a point where we're able to control these states to find new information, to reach sort of these esoteric states where we're gaining, I don't know, just information that there's no way for us to know.

  464. Xavier / Robert Waggoner

    and perhaps even getting to a point where we are reaching states of encountering godlike images or archetypes.

  465. Robert Waggoner

    Exactly.

  466. Robert Waggoner

    When you get into lucid dreaming, you know, at first there's the kind of fun and play aspect that can be very distracting.

  467. Robert Waggoner

    But after you've been a lucid dreamer for a few years, you realize you want to go further.

  468. Robert Waggoner

    And one of the first things that people do is they begin to access creativity.

  469. Robert Waggoner

    So like an artist might ask, show me a painting, the most incredible painting that I can create when I turn around.

  470. Robert Waggoner

    And when they turn around, here's an incredible painting.

  471. Robert Waggoner

    Or I remember a novelist told me that whenever he got stuck writing a novel, he would call out in a lucid dream, hey, novel figures, come here and tell me what's wrong with our novel.

  472. Robert Waggoner

    And all of a sudden the novel characters would appear and they would tell him how to improve the novel or how to resolve it.

  473. Robert Waggoner

    And so you can access creativity, but then you realize, well, wait a second, you can take this even further. You can begin to resolve emotional problems like phobias and anxiety and recurring nightmares.

  474. Robert Waggoner

    Then there's a lot of people who have had experiences with improving their health, apparently, in lucid dreams.

  475. Robert Waggoner

    You know, they become lucidly aware and they focus on healing something.

  476. Robert Waggoner

    And in the morning they wake up and, you know, their back is better or their knees better or the fever has gone away.

  477. Robert Waggoner

    And so it seems, you know, when you're at this really deep state, you can really influence things.

  478. Robert Waggoner

    And then beyond that,

  479. Robert Waggoner

    there's just learning about the nature of the unconscious mind. And finally, it's like you say, you can also do spiritual practices in a lucid dream. And oftentimes you realize that they're very powerful.

  480. Robert Waggoner

    In fact, Buddhists would often say that an action performed at the level of a lucid dream is seven times more powerful than one performed at the waking state.

  481. Robert Waggoner

    And I think they say that because you're at this deep level of the unconscious mind already.

  482. Robert Waggoner

    You're, you know, when you're meditating during the day, you know, there's still maybe a part of you that's thinking, oh, yeah, I got to pick up my son at four o'clock.

  483. Robert Waggoner

    And, oh, yeah, tomorrow I'm getting a haircut.

  484. Robert Waggoner

    And you got all these little distractions occurring and, you know, your back hurts or whatever, your knee, this, that, or the other.

  485. Robert Waggoner

    But when you're consciously aware in a lucid dream, oftentimes you have an enormous clarity of thought.

  486. Robert Waggoner

    I mean, you're very focused.

  487. Robert Waggoner

    the clarity is much more.

  488. Robert Waggoner

    And so then when you intend to do something like meditate in a lucid dream,

  489. Robert Waggoner

    the first time I meditated in a lucid dream, it just totally blew my mind.

  490. Robert Waggoner

    I couldn't believe that you could achieve such a profound state within a minute or so.

  491. Robert Waggoner

    And that was spending one minute meditating within a lucid dream.

  492. Robert Waggoner

    There's a friend of mine, Claire Johnson, who says that she's repeatedly meditated within a lucid dream.

  493. Robert Waggoner

    And she says now in her waking practice, what used to take her 20 minutes to get to a certain level, now, she says, because of these lucid dreams where she's meditated, she says it's like within five or six minutes she's at this incredible level that used to take her 20 minutes to get to.

  494. Robert Waggoner

    So you see that lucid dreaming is really a revolutionary psychological tool because it can be used for anything, for creativity, for healing, for spiritual growth, for inner transformation.

  495. Robert Waggoner

    But of course, you have to know how to go about it and kind of what the rules are.

  496. Xavier

    Definitely. And Robert, we're approaching the end here, but when I was doing the research for the show, I tried to find the origins of dream analysis, like which cultures were studying the dreams the most.

  497. Xavier

    And I found the Egyptians were really big on dreaming.

  498. Xavier

    They thought that it was a technological force.

  499. Xavier

    And there are these old hieroglyphs of this sort of winged bird with a human head coming to the person sleeping and kind of relaying this information.

  500. Xavier

    So, I mean, it spans through human history that dreams are highly valued. And the work that you're doing and kind of making people aware of the power of their own minds and how to lucid dream is intriguing.

  501. Robert Waggoner

    the depth of it is what's fascinating

  502. Robert Waggoner

    when you become consciously aware within the unconscious

  503. Xavier

    I mean if you know how to go about it

  504. Xavier

    you've opened up a whole new vast field

  505. Robert Waggoner

    oftentimes in those intro to psychology courses

  506. Xavier

    you know they'll show the conscious mind

  507. Robert Waggoner

    as kind of an iceberg

  508. Robert Waggoner

    and everything above the water you know is consciousness

  509. Robert Waggoner

    and then immediately below the water

  510. Robert Waggoner

    well that's the subconscious

  511. Robert Waggoner

    And then the bulk of things is the unconscious.

  512. Robert Waggoner

    And when you get into lucid dreaming, you're consciously aware and able to explore the unconscious.

  513. Robert Waggoner

    And for the other experienced lucid dreamers out there that they know, like I do, that it's utterly profound and also totally underappreciated by psychology and science.

  514. Robert Waggoner

    But hopefully we're in the early innings and someday people will really see the revolutionary psychological tool that lucid dreaming is.

  515. Robert Waggoner

    I truly hope so.

  516. Robert Waggoner

    I mean, so, okay, so to kind of finish up here, I mean, what would be one kind of tactic?

  517. Xavier

    I mean, I know you mentioned looking at your hands.

  518. Xavier

    Is that the primary way of kind of reminding yourself that you're within a lucid dream?

  519. Robert Waggoner

    You know, I think for beginners, that's a good way to start.

  520. Robert Waggoner

    sleep, look at your hands, tell yourself, tonight my dreams, when I see my hands, I'll realize I'm

  521. Robert Waggoner

    dreaming. And just focus on your hands, let your eyes cross or do whatever, but just keep focused

  522. Robert Waggoner

    on them. But you have to do it every night, just like Ivan Pavlov rang the bell every time he fed

  523. Robert Waggoner

    the dogs. But eventually, your hands are going to pop up in front of you. Also, you can do it during

  524. Robert Waggoner

    the day. Just look at your hands briefly. Tonight my dreams, I'll see my hands, I'll realize I'm

  525. Robert Waggoner

    dreaming, you know, just as a reminder. But what you do during the day, oftentimes through what

  526. Robert Waggoner

    they call continuity theory, continues in the dream state. And so if you do this enough, this

  527. Robert Waggoner

    kind of reality checking during the day, it'll appear in your lucid dreams. And also there's

  528. Robert Waggoner

    just the power of suggestion. Tonight in my dreams, I'll be more critically aware. And when I see

  529. Robert Waggoner

    something odd, I'll realize I'm dreaming. Just some suggestion like that also kind of primes a pump

  530. Robert Waggoner

    and creates the proper atmosphere for lucid dreaming.

  531. Xavier

    Yeah, and like you said, I mean, we spend a third of our lives dreaming,

  532. Xavier

    so it's a big part of it.

  533. Robert Waggoner

    I mean, Robert, where can people, you know, get your book, find you?

  534. Xavier

    I mean, what are you up to?

  535. Xavier

    Are you teaching any workshops anytime soon?

  536. Xavier

    Yeah, yeah.

  537. Robert Waggoner

    Halloween weekend, I'll be in Ireland doing a dream yoga, lucid dreaming workshop.

  538. Robert Waggoner

    And so you can find out about what I'm up to at lucidadvice.com or you can, of course, find my books at major bookstores, independent bookstores or at amazon.com.

  539. Robert Waggoner

    But the magazine that I co-edit is at luciddreammagazine.com.

  540. Robert Waggoner

    And so all those places are ways that you can find out what I'm up to and kind of see what's happening in the lucid dream space.

  541. Robert Waggoner

    Very cool.

  542. Robert Waggoner

    And I found your book to be a huge resource.

  543. Xavier

    covers all the aspects of lucid dreaming. It was a good read. Oh, thanks. Thanks. It's really

  544. Robert Waggoner

    something that I'm totally passionate about. And also, I would just want to remind people, you know,

  545. Robert Waggoner

    that by now I've been lucid dreaming for 40 years. And so my books are written with a lot of

  546. Robert Waggoner

    experience. It's not something that I picked up three years ago and now I've written a book about

  547. Robert Waggoner

    it. It's something I've spent decades working on. But I want to thank you so much for having me.

  548. Xavier

    This has been a lot of fun. Yeah, absolutely. Thank you so much for your presence here. This

  549. Xavier

    We will see you guys next week or within a lucid dream if you're having one.

  550. Xavier

    Thank you guys so much for listening.

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