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Episode 148 – Kate Rose – Relationships, Soul Connections and Twin Flames

A conversation with Kate Rose

Kate Rose is an author, thinker and relationship expert. Kate received her bachelors in visual arts education and her masters in clinical art therapy from Springfield college. Kate has published widely on the…

Published
November 7, 2019
Runtime
1:02:24
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Kate Rose is an author, thinker and relationship expert. Kate received her bachelors in visual arts education and her masters in clinical art therapy from Springfield college. Kate has published widely on the topics of love and relationships but it was her article “We only fall in love with 3 people in our lifetime” which became a viral sensation. It has been read by more than 69 million people. She has gone on to attempt to capture lightning in a bottle with her latest book of the same name. As Rose uses this book to speak to those who crave both logical and spiritual answers to questions about love. 
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  1. When a relationship sheds some of its ego-driven constraints, the question can become larger than romance: how can we change the world together, and what is the purpose of our relationship? People are drawn to the possibility that love between two people can become a source of meaningful action in the wider world.
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  2. It is not true that nobody can love us until we love ourselves; another person can sincerely say they love us. The harder question is whether we can receive a love greater than the love we have for ourselves. We tend to surround ourselves with mirrors of our own level of self-love and self-acceptance.
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  3. For people who believe we are souls, Earth can be understood as a classroom. We come here to learn, sometimes along particular paths, and love is a lesson shared by everyone. A relationship does not have to last forty years to matter; its purpose may have been to teach us something essential about love.
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  4. Self-love, self-knowledge, and acceptance are the currency you bring into a relationship. Knowing and accepting yourself makes vulnerability possible. When your sense of worth does not depend entirely on another person’s approval, the fear of whether that person will accept, like, or notice you begins to loosen.
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  5. People on this journey sometimes begin asking whether they need a relationship at all. When you genuinely love yourself, being single no longer feels like a state of lack. The question then changes: if my sense of love no longer depends on whether you love me, what is a relationship actually for?
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