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Episode 69 – Robert Waggoner – Lucid Dreaming: Gateway to the Inner Self

A conversation with Robert Waggoner

Robert Waggoner, Author, speaker and Lucid Dreamer, is past President of the International Association for the Study of Dreams (IASD). For the past ten years, he has been the co-editor of the online magazine, The Lucid Dreaming Experience, the only ongoing publication devoted specifically to lucid dreaming.

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Robert Waggoner, Author, speaker and Lucid Dreamer, is past President of the International Association for the Study of Dreams (IASD). For the past ten years, he has been the co-editor of the online magazine, The Lucid Dreaming Experience, the only ongoing publication devoted specifically to lucid dreaming. A lucid dreamer since 1975, he has logged more than 1,000 lucid dreams.

Robert frequently speaks on lucid dreaming at national and international dream conferences, workshops and college classrooms, like Sonoma State University, Iowa State University, University of Washington, University of Michigan-Ann Arbor and Evergreen State College.

Robert has been interviewed by CNN, CBS News and ABC News (KABC – Los Angeles) about the practice of lucid dreaming. His comments have appeared in media as diverse as DETAILS ,The Huffington Post, Pittsburgh Post Gazette, Popular Science and Brides magazine. During 2009-2010, he had a regular Iowa Public Radio show,discussing dreams and lucid dreams, and spoke with Utne Reader in 2015.

About Lucid Dreaming: Gateway to the inner-self:

Lucid Dreaming: Gateway to the Inner Self is the account of an extraordinarily talented lucid dreamer who goes beyond the boundaries of both psychology and religion. In the process, he stumbles upon the Inner Self. While lucid (consciously aware) in the dream state and able to act and interact with dream figures, objects, and settings, dream expert Robert Waggoner experienced something transformative and unexpected. He was able to interact consciously with the dream observer — the apparent Inner Self — within the dream. At first this seemed shocking, even impossible, since psychology normally alludes to such theoretical inner aspects as the Subliminal Self, the Center, the Internal Self-Helper in vague and theoretical ways.

Waggoner came to realize, however, that aware interaction with the Inner Self was not only possible, but actual and highly inspiring. He concluded that while aware in the dream state, one has both a psychological tool and a platform from which to understand dreaming and the larger picture of man’s psyche as well. Waggoner proposes 5 stages of lucid dreaming and guides readers through them, offering advice for those who have never experienced the lucid dream state and suggestions for how experienced lucid dreamers can advance to a new level. Lucid Dreaming offers exciting insights and vivid illustrations that will intrigue not only avid dreamworkers but anyone who is interested in consciousness, identity, and the definition of reality.

In this episode we spoke to Robert about the Lucid Dream state – some of its religious and cultural implications, we lead you through the journey of what is involved with becoming lucid within a dream. We get into Robert’s personal journey and how he became one of the foremost lucid-dreamers in the world.  

This conversation will inform, entertain and enthrall you. 

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Editorial Reviews on “Lucid Dreaming”:

In this remarkable book, Robert Waggoner has brought lucid dreaming to a level that is simultaneously higher and deeper than any previous explorer has taken the topic. Both autobiographical and historical, theoretical and practical, psychodynamic and transpersonal, as well as adventurous and cautionary, Lucid Dreaming offers its readers instructions and insights that they will find nowhere else in the literature. They will learn how they can become awake and aware while asleep, and how this talent can change their lives. —Stanley Krippner, Ph.D., Professor of Psychology, Saybrook Graduate School and Research Center, San Francisco, Coauthor of Extraordinary Dreams and How To Work With Them

Lucid Dreaming IS a gateway to the Inner Self. Robert Waggoner s unique storytelling style is compelling reading an impressive exploration of the subject. The work is scholarly, fascinating, and, most of all, practical. —Christine Lemley, Executive Producer, DREAMTIME Series, WFYI/PBS-TV Indianapolis

Robert Waggoner admirably fulfills his aim of bringing lucidity to lucid dreaming. His book is distinguished by its wealth of first-hand experience, and his clear recognition that, instead of seeking to control and manipulate our dreams, we should use the gift of lucidity to navigate a deeper reality and grow into connection with a deeper and wiser self. He offers practical techniques and fascinating travelers tales to encourage us to experiment with interactive and precognitive dreaming and to explore the process of reality creation inside the dream matrix. This is an invitation to high adventure. —Robert Moss, Author of Conscious Dreaming and The Three ONLY Things: Tapping the Power of Dreams, Coincidence, and Imagination

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in this episode we brought on mr. Robert

Wagoner he is considered one of the

worldwide authorities on lucid dreaming

he's appeared on CNN CBS ABC and a wide

range of other media outlets this

episode covers some of the main points

of lucid dream experience but I highly

recommend you pick up a copy of Roberts

book simply titled lucid dreaming

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without much further ado ladies and

gentlemen this is mr. Robert Wagoner

where we discuss his book lucid dreams

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Gateway to the inner self with my guest

mr. Robert Wagoner Robert my good sir

welcome to matrix B hey thanks for

having me Robert you're we're talking

about your book today lucid dreaming

let's let's start at the beginning for

you I mean how did you get to the point

where you decided to write this book

you know I taught myself how to lucid

dream or become consciously aware of

dreaming while in the dream state back

in 1975 when I was a junior or in high

school and so after about 30 years of

lucid dreaming I thought there really

wasn't a good book on the lucid dreaming

experience and some of the incredible

things that a person could do when they

become consciously aware within the

dream and so around 2005 or so I made my

first attempt at writing a book and got

about 50 pages and stopped there but but

then in 2007 I went ahead and and wrote

this first book lucid dreaming gateway

to the inner self and that's been

followed up by a second book lucid

dreaming plain and simple which is all

about the tips and techniques but it was

just out of my desire to kind of share

with people the extraordinary depth of

lucid dreaming okay

so I mean most people I would say most

people don't even remember their dreams

at all right exactly and so and and I

find that there's this sort of period

for me anyway there's this sort of

window where I when I'm regaining

consciousness where dreams kind of

absorb back in and I have that chance

and if I missed that chance I just I

lose all track or memory of what if I

whatever I was dreaming you know that's

that's how many people experience it if

they if they don't make some notes in

the middle of the night or they don't

make some dream notes immediately upon

waking within two or three or four

minutes the memory of the dream is

totally gone and

so to give into lucid dreaming or to

dream recall you just really have to

focus upon waking up what was I just

dreaming and write down some notes and

make that the most important thing that

you do when you wake up every morning

okay so I mean lucid dreaming was coined

by Frederick than Ian that's right that

that's what most people would say

historically there's this gentleman and

the Netherlands he was kind of as a

scientist he also coined the term

psychotherapists

but but Frederick van Eden he was a

scientist but also a little bit of a

mystic and background the turn of the

century at 1900 he began to realize he

was having lucid dreams and he came up

with this term I think when he gave a

presentation to the Society for

psychical research in London you know

like 1913 or something but yeah a lucid

dream is any dream in which you realize

within the dream that you're dreaming

and so often times you'll have that

moment when you say in the dream oh this

is a dream I mean that's the only

explanation for how you can see a cow

flying you know across the sky right or

something like that and so so it's a

it's a wonderful moment because at that

moment everything shifts you realize

that you're surrounded by dream stuff

and dream figures and and the dream

setting and and it just totally changes

the entire dream experience it

fascinates me that that we sleep I mean

that week that all humans need sleeping

most species on the planet sleep at some

point or another I mean I think it was

Terence Mckenna who said something quite

profound that because the the way that

the earth is moving there's there's

always a section of the human population

that is asleep and a section that is

kind of awake I mean just a kind of kind

of side note there but I mean within

within lucid dreaming and and dreaming

itself I mean how did you get to a point

where you were you were so proficient at

this

because it seems like such a hard thing

to do to to realize you're dreaming

first to to even remember your dreams

but then to to actually realize you're

dreaming and then take control of of the

dream yeah you know what just to carry

on with that line of thinking for a

second if you sit down and think that

probably every night we spend about two

two-and-a-half hours in the dream sight

state every one of us two and two and a

half hours in the dream state I mean by

the time you're 11 years old you will

have spent one entire year's worth of

time in dreaming in this state of

dreaming and it's incredible that you

know scientifically we know a little bit

about it but but there's a lot that

hasn't been figured out and and that's

one of the beautiful aspects about lucid

dreaming when you're consciously aware

within the dream state you have the

ability to explore to experiment and to

do all that kind of thing to kind of get

a new understanding of dreaming but but

for me how I became proficient was that

so back in 1975 I was reading this book

by Carlos Castaneda called journey to

excellent and in this book is shamanic

teacher Don Juan she suggests to him

that he finds his hands in the dream

state and become consciously aware and

that was a totally radically new idea

for me and I wondered if that could

actually happen but there wasn't a

technique and so because I knew a little

bit about self suggestion and hypnosis

this is what I did as a young guy each

night before I go to sleep I just look

at my hands while telling myself over

and over in my head tonight my dreams

I'll see my hands and realize I'm

dreaming tonight my dreams I'll see my

hands and realize I'm dreaming and I

would say that for about five minutes

until I became naturally sleepy and and

went to bed and I did this for three

nights and then on the third night I was

walking through my high school hallway

and suddenly just like they were spring

loaded my hands popped right in front of

my face

and I thought oh my hands this is a

dream

and so that was my first consciousness

consciously intended or induced lucid

dream experience and so I continued with

that and because it was so much fun the

it's so powerful and almost transcendent

when you have this kind of peak

experience of realizing within a dream

that you're dreaming and so I seem to

have a kind of a natural facility for it

and I just continued going deeper and

deeper into lucid dreaming but what

really made me the happiest was when in

1980-81 when finally the scientific

evidence for it came out because up

until that time I would tell my friends

about it and they told me oh you can't

become conscious in the unconscious and

dreaming no one can do that I told them

you know it's easy yeah here's here's

how you do it and some of my friends

even did it back then but it wasn't

until 81 the evidence came out

interesting case so so you you became

proficient just by kind of programming

psychologically that you were gonna see

your hands and then through that trigger

you you you realize you were in a dream

and then you started controlling it

right right so it's kind of like Ivan

Pavlov the Russian physiologist he would

ring a bell right every time he

presented food to dogs and after he did

this 10 or 20 times he could ring a bell

and suddenly the dogs would salivate so

in psychology that's what you call a

conditioned response and so basically I

conditioned myself that whenever I saw

my hands the first idea that would come

to my head is this is a dream and so so

for example I might in a dream be

climbing up a ladder and see my hands

and think wait a second oh this is a

dream I remember talking to one person

who had read my book and he said that he

was very successful with this technique

and but one time his hands popped in

front of his face and he didn't get it

and then all of a sudden the hands

started slapping him in the face until

he realized oh that this is a dream and

and so so you realize you know that you

can just use simple self suggestion and

kind of this behavioral conditioning to

to achieve it but but that's how I did

it back in 1975 before the scientific

evidence emerging so I mean we're we're

diving into the psyche here I mean a lot

of this because I I feel like I mean I I

have been meditating and I've been

solidly meditating for the last I don't

know 10 or 15 years and at the beginning

stages of that I think I was I was

purposely attempting to go out of body

and I was I was intrigued by the

out-of-body State I mean how would you

compare lucid dreaming to out-of-body

experiences right right so normally when

I give workshops I tell people that a

lucid dream in an out-of-body is

basically like a house cat and a

mountain lion they share some

similarities but there are two different

animals and so again lucid dream the

definition is realizing within a dream

that you're dreaming so you see

something impossible or something

happens and you can think wait a second

oh this is a dream but to think about

how the body experiences those kind of

reports someone has a car accident and

they're thrown out the windshield and

they're laying and the in the middle of

the highway and suddenly they're seeing

everything from from 20 feet above the

accident site I mean that's an

out-of-body experience that's an

experience that didn't begin with

realizing you're in a dream and so so by

definition you know these are definitely

two different experiences but where it

gets complicated is this around the same

time I taught myself how to lucid dream

I would have these other experiences

which I later came to realize we're out

of bodies but basically what would

happen I'd be lying in bed getting ready

to fall asleep and then I start to hear

this kind of humming buzzing noise and

you know it sounds like a thousand

bumblebees around my head or someone

playing and Digger ado or something like

that and and I'd feel this strange

energy and then I'd realize well wait a

second I'm I'm viewing my bedroom or

what appears to be my bedroom from you

know five or six feet above the bed yeah

how did I do this and so so I started

having these kind of strange experiences

like this and one day I just happen to

ask one of my older brothers had ever

had an experience like that and and he

told me you're having out-of-body

experiences and there's this new book by

Robert Monroe you can read it out and

and and see what this is all about but

you begin to realize that

phenomenologically they're different so

so so that kind of experience you know

there's buzzing there's energy sometimes

you're rolled out sometimes you shoot

out sometimes you see these wispy kind

of silver colored arms of light or

whatever you know your your kind of

astral arms if you want to think of it

that way and you realize that that's a

totally different experience than lucid

dreaming the beautiful thing about lucid

dreaming though is is that it is simply

almost always joyful fun well when you

have out-of-body experiences especially

when it begins to happen if you're a

teenager sometimes because these can be

utterly frightful events there's all

this energy and humming and you don't

know what what's going on I mean no

one's prepared you for it and so so the

sad thing though is now these two

experiences are being intermixed and

there's some people like Stephen Laberge

who say that that out of bodies are

actually probably a variant lucid and

type of lucid dream right but but again

if you get shot out of your windshield

windshield on the highway and you're

laying there and seen everything from 30

feet above you your physical body you

know that that's obviously not realizing

within a dream that you're dreaming so

there are two definitely different

experiences and and there's a lot of

phenomenological differences too yeah it

seems like they're completely different

experiences Robert Monroe hugely

recommend any of his material he was a

big hero of mine so let's I mean let's

talk about some tools that I mean

because we can use this state as a form

of learning right exactly exactly

a wonderful way first to kind of realize

that dreaming itself is not random like

some scientists say it is that actually

in a lucid dream you begin to realize

that there's certain principles and

rules and so just to give your listeners

a kind of a rough idea there would be

some rules that you learn very quickly

and lucid dreaming one rule is don't get

too excited because if you get too

excited normally what happens and I mean

really excited if you get too excited

then normally you pop out of the lucid

dream and so around the world

universally it seems lucid dreamers

report that if they get too excited you

know upon becoming lucid they'll

immediately pop out of the lucid dream

so that's kind of one of the basic rules

another rule was one that Costin ADA

brought up in that book journey to

excellence him onic teacher told him

don't stare at things when you become

consciously aware in a lucid dream and

and I remember the in my very first

intended lucid dream I did that I I

stepped outside of the whole high school

and I was looking at the bricks on the

administration building and I began to

notice the detail and then it was like

the dream started shaking like this

lucid dream started shaking and I

realized oh it's gonna collapse and I

remember that Don Juan told Carlos to

look back at his hands to renew the

power of dreaming if that ever occurred

and and so I did that and managed to

prolong the lucid dream but but that's

just another aspect of it in regular

dreams we have rapid eye movement you

know our eyes are moving all over the

place but in lucid dreams your eyes

should still continue to move a little

bit if you stare fixedly at something

there's something about that that within

four or five seconds will make the lucid

dream want to collapse it's so

interesting I feel like eventually

technology will get to a point where we

will be able to induce this state using

just gear like that we hook up to our

brains I mean I know that

have different tools like like glasses

that you can wear that kind of flash red

light to end and that way it kind of

reminds you that you're dreaming you can

wear those I mean so you mentioned

around the world I mean do you notice

that that people different people have

different proclivities to to lucid

dreaming around the world well they've

done some research surveys of college

students and asked them have you ever

become consciously aware of dreaming

while in the dream state and when they

surveyed students in the US about 72

percent said that yes they'd had that

experience at least once and about 25

percent say they have that experience at

least once a month and and the results

were roughly the same and the

Netherlands and Germany and in Western

Europe in Japan though the response was

42% so only 42 percent of the Japanese

students said that had that experience

and so it makes you wonder if the

interpretation or the way it was

translated didn't get across very

thoughtfully so that students understood

but but altogether when you look at the

total population a little over half the

population is as having had or has had

the lucid dream experience now there are

some people though who lucid dream

virtually every night and and and at

first I began to explore this a little

bit because I co edit a magazine called

the lucid dreaming experience and and I

wanted to find out you know what what's

behind this becoming lucid every night

and and my theory was that these people

had had childhood nightmares and so they

taught themselves how to differentiate

waking from dreaming because if you're

gonna have a childhood nightmare every

night you want to be ready and vigilant

and know when you're in the dream state

so you're prepared for the witches or

the monsters or the zombies or whatever

and and so when I begin to

talk to people who said they had lucid

dreams every night the majority that was

their situation they had childhood

nightmares that were really severe and

to kind of deal with that they taught

themselves how to become lucid Lee aware

because when you realize it's a dream

then you can fly away from the witches

or you can make some accommodation but

then I began to meet people who that

wasn't their case and one woman told me

that she had a neurotic habit and I

asked her what that was and she said she

had a neurotic habit of 20 or 30 times

throughout the day asking herself what

was I just doing what was I just doing

and so if she is folding the clothes in

the laundry room you know what was I

just doing oh yeah I was making tea for

myself and so she would do that in her

dreams she had asked herself what was I

just doing and then she would remember

that she was putting on her pajamas and

then she realized how this must must be

a dream and so so I began to see that

people could develop a lucid mindset so

this is kind of a state of examining

their perceived environment very closely

or have some recurring habit like

examining what you were just doing

something that made you more mindful

about your space and in that way you

could develop a lucid mindset but but to

write around the world basically half

the people report lucid dreaming and

about 25% of the people seem to have

kind of a natural talent to lucid dream

interesting so it seems that a human is

a human and we all basically can't have

the ability to Lucy drink I really think

so and a lot of it like we began talking

about is dreaming has a basic experience

is devalued in society people don't pay

attention to their dreams anymore but

you can think back 2,000 years before

Netflix and before TV and before all

that I mean dreams probably were the

most exciting things that were happening

in people's lives if they were living in

some you know small village along the

I mean you know in your dreams you could

interact with the disease you can fly

you can do all sorts of amazing things

and have all kinds of interesting

experiences so but in this current

culture dreaming is really devalued

people don't talk about it or they just

think about it in kind of

psychologically therapeutic terms and

that and that that's all the more they

think about it I mean I would say that

television probably sucks the ability to

lucid dream out of you all the flashing

images your brain just can't handle it

that's so so I really there's a chapter

in your book called the varieties of

dream figures I find this fascinating

and you say that these can be anywhere

from symbols to different archetypes

I mean how so I mean what what generates

this like is it just the psyche that's

kind of generating this dream figure

that comes to you or how does that work

yeah you know it's interesting so when

you become consciously aware in a dream

I mean we're just kind of as social

beings were kind of socialized to

interact with other figures in the dream

and what's interesting is that

oftentimes lucid dreamers would go up to

a dream figure and they would say hey do

you know this is a dream and and almost

again universally the dream figures

would frown at them or just look upset

and there's been a number of examples of

lucid dreamers going up to a dream

figure saying hey do you know I do you

know that I'm dreaming you and then the

dream figure responding how do you know

I'm not dreaming you Wow

and then the lucid dreamer would say

well look I can fly and then the dream

figure would say well look I can fly too

and they would keep trying to one-up

each other to see who had the most

abilities there in the dream state but

but what it shows you is this dream

figures very sometimes you'll ask a

dream figure a question and you'll get

gobbledygook for an answer or sometimes

it'll just turn away but other times

you'll

interact with dream figures who seem

very aware and conscious and alert and

sometimes they'll give you incredible

explanations like for example I remember

one of my first experiments as a early

lucid dreamer back in the early 80s was

asking a dream figure that happened to

be a friend of mine to explain a dream

symbol to me and so within the lucid

dream I picked up a dream symbol and I

said hey Andrea what does this represent

so I was holding a jewel gym in my hand

and she says hope and consciousness and

I woke up thinking wow a dream figure

analyzed a symbol within a lucid dream

and I did a pretty good job of it but

but what happens then as a lucid dreamer

should go deeper into this you think

we'll wait a second is it just telling

me what I already know or is it just

giving me an acceptable answer you know

something that's subconsciously in the

back of my mind and and so to play

around with that if you want to you can

you can take this much deeper for

example

various people on becoming lucidly aware

often life people become lucidly aware

when they see a deceased relative

because they say wait a second uncle

Uncle John he's been dead for ten years

oh this must be a dream and then they

become lucidly aware and I remember one

time and one of my workshops a woman

reported that her uncle appeared in a

dream she became lucidly aware and then

he came up to her and said if you want

to understand the family secret because

this woman reported there was a family

secret in her family he goes to

understand the family secret you have to

go to the County Courthouse go up to

this particular room on the second floor

and then ask for this specific file and

he gave her the number for the file from

the clerk and and so the woman you know

she's a good lucid dreamer she paid

attention to you know the exact

instructions she woke up and wrote it

down

a few days later she went to the County

Courthouse and she asked for that

specific file in that specific room and

then it came to her this filed that was

of the family battle about the sale of

some land you know ten years before she

was born and and so so when that happens

that that kind of takes it to a

different level because now a dream

figure has given you information outside

of your knowing right and and so so then

that's why I try to get across this idea

of dream figures varying and normally

you can see it in their eyes just like

if you're talking to a human if they

don't seem to be very alert or if

they're not looking you in the eye or

whatever I would just ignore them

altogether but some dream figures seem

very conscious in their life and in fact

I've had a number of lucid dreams where

it's obvious that the dream figure was

trying to get me to be lucidly aware

because when I become elusively aware

suddenly it congratulate Smee on

becoming lucidly aware and then then

I'll realize oh the same dream figure

tried to get me to become lucidly aware

the night before and I failed and so you

begin to see that there truly is

varieties of dream figures all dream

figures are not created equal this is

very very intriguing because we're

bouncing into this sort of esoteric and

the metaphysical and like precognition

determining kind of things and defining

information that we wouldn't otherwise

have I find it I find it interesting

that that the only real difference that

we have the only difference that that we

have between knowing that we're dreaming

or sleep is that every night I lay down

to go to sleep I close my eyes and and

that process of waking up but if that

process was erased I mean how would I

know the difference between this being

the the quote real world and that being

the dream world exactly it's one thing

that I would say about lucid dreaming is

if you're good at lucid dreaming you're

cool

to question many basic assumptions that

that you've just collected over the

course of your life you know what

constitutes reality is it just a matter

of consensus you know what what is the

minimal definition of reality well what

would that be

because when you become consciously

aware in a lucid dream and you realize

that it's a principled environment

it's a has certain rules you begin to

think that oh I'm learning here in my

subconscious or unconscious level of my

mind and then when you take it even

further and begin to interact with these

dream figures who seem more aware than

you do or have information outside of

your knowing that then it really is like

an alternate reality but it's an

alternate reality that occurs in the

lucid dream space yeah it's fascinating

really intriguing have you seen a movie

called waking life yes I have you know I

think that's so one of the better movies

that have to do with with lucid dreaming

because it brings up so many

philosophical questions and and also has

that kind of dreamy spirit to it

and the way the figures change

throughout the throughout the movie

yeah that's Richard Linklater is the

director of that phenomenal movie highly

recommend it I mean let's let's move

into some of your own personal

experiences with lucid dreaming and what

would what would be one of your top

lucid dreams Wow

you know what happened to me so I taught

myself in 1975 how to lucid dream and I

continued on with the practice and all

but but one of the first things that

happened to me was 1985 I was part of a

three-year lucid dreaming group

exploration group founded by woman Linda

Lane

Maggie own and each month we had a goal

to achieve and and one month the goal

was become lucidly aware and find out

what the dream figures in your lucid

dream represent

and so I thought that's pretty easy I've

done that before but what happened it

was really interesting no I think it was

March of 85 I was on a business trip out

to Chicago I remember I had to submit my

lucid dream for that month and so that

night it became lucidly aware and

followed a woman into an office and so

now I'm inside this office I know it's a

lucid dream there's a receptionist two

women sitting there and a man in a

three-piece suit an older man was kind

of a gold chain in his pocket and all

that so in my very nice Midwestern way I

just walked up to him and I said excuse

me

what do you represent and the most

incredible thing happened at that moment

instead of the dream figure replying all

of a sudden a voice boomed out a partial

response from high above him yet this

voice just boomed out this response and

the response didn't make complete sense

and and so I looked up into the sky and

and just asked you know like now now

what and then it boomed out a full

response that this this gentleman

represented the acquired characteristics

of the happy giver and and so I thought

okay I've done the assignment I figured

out what this guy represents and so I'm

gonna wake up and write this down before

I forget and so I woke up and wrote it

down and and as I was writing it down I

remembered the day before I'd been in

Chicago and met a woman who was the head

of a non-profit and she told me oh the

only reason people give to my

organization is to get their name in the

annual report and I thought oh boy she

is such a unhappy receiver and as I

walked away from her I thought in my

head oh the Lord loves a happy Giver

but because she was such an unhappy

receiver and so I realized this was a

little bit of day residue but but the

important element of this was after that

I began to wonder because his voice had

boomed out the response and not the

dream figure was there an awareness

behind the dream so so could you and a

lucid dream stopped relating to the

dream figures and the

environment and just shout out questions

to your subconscious mind or this

non-visible awareness behind the dream

and so starting in 1985 I began to do

that I would become consciously aware

and I would shout out questions ike a

dream show me something important for me

to see and then the incredible thing is

the entire lucid dream would change and

I'd be looking at something incredible

and so suddenly I felt like I found the

most creative aspect of the lucid dream

you know in in political shows sometimes

they'll say follow the money or you know

they'll have kind of a basic premise you

know - if you want to understand the

truth of something follow the money

but in lucid dreaming and in the

subconscious or unconscious mind if you

if you want to understand something I

say follow the creativity if you follow

the creativity and find the most

creative thing you know then then you're

really onto something and it was

interesting that year 1985 Stephen

Laberge his first book on lucid dreaming

came out and he did something very

similar but not exactly the same in that

first book of his he suggests that lucid

dreamers become aware and then announced

that they surrender to the highest and

see what happens and so you become

lucidly aware you ignore the dream

figures and you announce now I surrender

to the highest and normally he said some

of his most profound lucid dreams

occurred when he surrendered but when I

read that I thought okay who are used to

rendering - and it's interesting in that

book he he just refused to say he said I

was not important to think about what or

who were were surrendering to but that's

why I called my first book lucid

dreaming gateway to the inner self as

you begin to interact with this

awareness behind the dream it it seems

to have the qualities and

characteristics of what a person would

call and in herself and what would even

Carl Jung kind of gave as a

characteristics of a second psychic

system within our

unconscious mind yeah Wow quite

intriguing you know I really really want

to bring up the the aspect of drugs and

and dreaming I mean it it seems like

just DMT tMT's produced naturally in the

joint in the brain so I mean if DMT is

producing these dream states then could

could we say that either

ingesting DMT taking the MTA osku are

those forms I mean could we relate this

to lucid dreaming well it's interesting

I don't have any first-hand experience

with DMT or ayahuasca I have read

ayahuasca experiences though in an

anthropological reports and firsthand

personal anecdotal reports and and they

do seem very similar to a lucid dream

because the person is consciously aware

within the experience they they know

they're having the experience but but

the one thing about it in the ayahuasca

experience you can tell that it's kind

of being chemically mediated because the

person is kind of following the flow of

chemicals

and then once the chemicals you know

finally degrade within them you know

then they pop out on the other side I

mean but but during the experience they

seem very lucid sometimes they have

conversations with the figures that they

meet also it's interesting that in some

of these i wasin experiences people

report the same thing you know of

serpents or this that and the other

nature aspects it that come to meet them

or talk to them and all now when it

comes to DMT I've had some people kind

of tell me about their experiences and

all they seem a little bit more like

what I would call what a experienced

lucid dreamer might have as you go

deeper and deeper into lucid dreaming

sometimes you have some very abstract

experiences for example

instead of meeting a dream figure you

meet a ball of light or you meet a

geometric form of light that

communicates something to you and so

that that's you know especially for

someone like myself when you're not

expecting to meet a geometric form of

light it's kind of a wild thing you're

consciously aware you interact with it

but but sometimes when you hear about

the DMT experiences so sometimes it

makes you feel like they've gotten to

that level but but what what I would do

want to say though about lucid dreaming

is lucid dreaming is kind of a natural

progression through one's self you know

through your belief system through your

fears because you realize that your

fears kind of inhibit your exploration

within the lucid dream state so until

you resolve those fears you can't go any

deeper but but in some of these in some

of these chemically induced states a lot

of times that people are just you know

the chemicals are pushing them into some

really heavy-duty stuff and and how much

they're really learning from the

experience or how much they're really

growing from the experience is a little

bit hard to tell but in lucid dreaming

where it's kind of a natural progression

you realize that you know you naturally

have to conquer your fears you naturally

have to work through limiting beliefs in

order to grow this experience and go

deeper and deeper and deeper yeah I

definitely get we were saying a friend

of mine made an interesting analogy he

said that that using drugs to reach this

type of state is kind of like being a

tourist or getting getting a ticket to

an amusement park and and kind of

getting on the ride and you take the

ride but when it's over your memory of

it is is not the same and and and you're

just you're simply a tourist in these in

these states whereas when you're when

you're actually meditating and doing the

work to reach the state because I do

believe that reaching a state of lucid

dreaming and dreaming conscious

it does it does take this sort of mental

exercise does take this this mental work

so I mean what are your thoughts on that

it's exactly it's exactly the case in a

lucid dreaming you realize that it's not

really so it's not really about control

because how can you say you control the

lucid dream when you ask a dream figure

oh do you know I'm dreaming you and then

there gives you an unexpected response

like how do you know I'm not dreaming

you so after a while you realize a lucid

dream isn't about control

sure the lucid dreamer influences things

but fundamentally what lucid dreaming is

about is aware relating you begin to

relate to the contents of your

subconscious or unconscious mind with

greater awareness this aware of relating

begins to show you limiting beliefs you

have fears that you have issues about

focus fixations that you might have and

as you work through them you begin to

grow and grow and grow and you can you

realize you're growing because you go

more deeply into lucid dreaming I

remember I was going so deeply into

lucid dreaming that at one point I began

to see in the sky above me a banner fine

saying trust nothing to fear and

sometimes I'd hear a voice behind me say

trust nothing to fear because as you go

deeper and deeper and deeper and this is

something that Tenzin Wangyal Rinpoche

who wrote the Tibetan yoga's of dream

and sleep said he said really the the

dream Yoga path the lucid dreaming path

is of increasing fearlessness you know

you you you face your fears and you

resolve them you work through them but

but so lucid dreaming is a very natural

process it's one of a we're relating

it's one where you begin to see yourself

and just not this ego waking self but

there's a larger awareness you're part

and parcel

interesting I mean you know when we get

into the science of dreaming and rapid

eye movement and we're talking about

different neurotransmitters that are

that are happening inside the brain I

mean do you think that perhaps in the

future that there could be a sort of

pill that I mean I know that when I take

melatonin I tend to have deeper and more

clear and even sometimes lucid dreams

and do you think that there it's I mean

do you think it's possible that we could

invent something that that would allow

us to lucid dream right right you know I

definitely think you know there's

there's basically three gateways into

lucid dreaming of versus this kind of

mental gateway of learning practices of

being more aware of suggesting before

you sleep that you'll be aware in the

dream state become lucid but but there's

also this biochemical path and you know

for some people you know melatonin might

help some people take one of the B

vitamins that helps to enhance their

memory right before they go to sleep but

but there has been some work but by

Stephen Laberge on a specific active

ingredient in galantamine which is a

drug used for people with Alzheimer's to

make them more aware and alert in waking

physical reality but but he realized

that this galanthamine also seemed to

help people become lucidly aware now I

do want to say that this is a herb that

in the u.s. is legal that people can

purchase but it is a it's a really a

heavy duty substance and so I don't want

people to take it just thinking that

it's like you know b6 or something like

that it's really heavy duty thing and

it's also something that you take after

you've been asleep for five hours or so

you don't take it when you fall asleep

you take it after you wake up after

about five hours and then you take it

but for some people it appears to help

them become lucid Leah we're

now what one thing I do want to say

though is I had a good friend at Kellogg

who has a PhD in biochemistry from Duke

and so he decided you know to

investigate whether the placebo aspect

plays a role here and so what he did he

got 20 capsules and in half of them he

put the this active ingredient

galantamine and in half of them he put

something corn starch or sugar or

something I can't remember what but he

numbered them all and gave him to a

friend and then on particular days he'd

asked his friend for one of the pills

but telling his friend to keep the

number so he'd know whether it's you

know one of the Granta mean pills or one

of the placebo pills and and Edie said

that after he went through his study he

said that he actually had more lucid

dreams on the night that he took the

placebo and he said he couldn't believe

it because on some of those nights he

had all the side effects of galantamine

induced lucid dreams you know they're

they're much longer they're more stable

sometimes they're a little bit more

fantastical but sometimes you have

bought at bodily feelings of kind of

feeling very hot and and in the morning

you're kind of drugged out like you you

know had too much to drink too much to

drink exactly and so so what's

interesting about this is that even

though there might be a biochemical

doorway and even though someday we might

have the perfect thing that gets us all

into lucid dreaming just by pumping a

pill that still there's this placebo

aspect that that can't be avoided it's

really fascinating because I mean the

placebo trick is really interesting it

just shows you how powerful the mind is

and how powerful our brains are that

we're somehow able to produce this state

by just taking like a pill you know when

my first book came out a fan of the book

sent me his device is kind of a dream

mass that you'd put on your eyes before

you go to sleep and it would flash

lights in your eyes when it realized you

were dreaming

and so he sent me this thing he had

created and and it had all these strange

instructions and the first night I set

it up and that I woke up in the middle

of night I realized this the silly thing

wasn't working and so then the next

night I set it up again and got it all

configured and it's not okay this time

it's really gonna work and that night

I'm driving down 13th Street all of a

sudden I see there's a car in the ditch

and it's lights are flashing red red red

and I think Oh red lights this is a

dream and I became lucidly aware and had

a wonderful lucid dream but but you know

what when I woke up and looked at this

little machine device I realized once

again it hadn't worked and that my mind

just by expecting red lights flashing

had created red lights flashing so you

write this this placebo aspect the

incredible creativity of belief and

expectation in our mind often results in

experience yeah yeah it's it's

intriguing to me I find this whole

aspect of you know just that we go to

sleep and that you know dreams represent

these different structures were either

resolving conflict some conflict or just

kind of dumping information out that we

experience through the day and then

eventually getting to a point where

we're able to control these these states

to find new information to reach sort of

these esoteric States or gaining I don't

know just information there's there's no

way for us to know and perhaps even

getting to a point where we are reaching

states of encountering God like like

images or or archetypes exactly when you

get into lucid dreaming you know it

first hurts the kind of fun and play

aspect that can be very distracting but

but after you've been a lucid dreamer

for a few years you realize you want to

go further and one of the first things

that people do is they begin to access

creativity so like an artist might ask

show me a painting the most incredible

painting that I can create

when I turn around and when they turn

around here's an incredible painting or

I remember a novelist told me that

whenever he got stuck writing the novel

he would call out in a lucid dream

hey novel figures come here and tell me

what's wrong with our novel and all of a

sudden the novel characters would appear

and they would tell him you know how to

improve the novel or how to resolve it

and so you can access creativity but

then you realize well wait a second you

can take this even further you can begin

to resolve emotional problems like

phobias and anxiety and recurring

nightmares that then there's a lot of

people who have had experiences with

improving their health

apparently in lucid dreams you know they

become lucidly aware and they focus on

healing something and in the morning

they wake up and you know their back is

better or their knees better or the the

fever has gone away and so it seems you

know when you're at this really deep

state you can really influence things

and then beyond that there's just

learning about the nature of the

unconscious mind and and finally it's

like you say you can also do spiritual

practices in a lucid dream and and

oftentimes you realize that they're very

powerful in fact Buddhists would often

say that an action performed at the

level of a lucid dream is seven times

more powerful than one performed at the

waking state and I think they say that

because you're at this deep level of the

unconscious mind already here you know

when you're meditating during the day

you know there's still maybe a part of

you that's thinking oh yeah I got to

pick up my son at 4 o'clock and oh yeah

tomorrow I'm getting a haircut and you

got all these little distractions

occurring and you know your back hurts

or whatever your need this that or the

other but when you're consciously aware

in a lucid dream oftentimes you have an

enormous clarity of thought I mean it's

you're very focused you're the the

clarity is much more and so then when

you intend to do something like meditate

in a lucid dream the first time I

meditated in a lucid dream it it just

totally blew my mind yeah I couldn't

believe that you could achieve such a

profound state or within a minute or so

and that was spending one minute

meditating with in a lucid dream there's

a friend of mine Claire Johnson who says

that she's repeatedly meditated within a

lucid dream and she says now in her

waking practice what used to take her 20

minutes to get to a certain level now

she says because of these lucid dreams

where she's meditated she says it's like

within five or six minutes she's at this

incredible level that they used to take

her 20 minutes to get to so so you see

that lucid dreaming is really a

revolutionary psychological tool because

it can be used for anything for

creativity for healing for a spiritual

growth for inner transformation but of

course you have to know how to go about

it and and kind of what the rules are

definitely and Robert I mean we're

approaching the end here but I mean when

I was when I was doing the research for

the show I was I I tried to find kind of

the origins of you know dream analysis

like what which cultures were kind of

studying the dreams the most and and I

found I found the Egyptians were really

big on dreaming they thought that it was

a technological force and that there are

these these old hieroglyphs of this sort

of winged bird with a human head coming

to the person sleeping and kind of

relaying this this information so I mean

they're you know it spans through human

history that that dreams are highly

valued and I mean it in the work that

you're doing and and you know kind of

making people aware of you know the

power of their own minds and how to

lucid dream is is intriguing the depth

of it is what's fascinating native wind

when you become consciously aware within

the unconscious I mean if you know how

to go about it you've opened up a whole

new vast field

oftentimes in those intro to psychology

courses you know they'll show the

conscious mind is kind of an iceberg and

everything above the water you know is

consciousness and then immediately below

the water well that's the subconscious

and then the bulk of things is the

unconscious and when you get into lucid

dreaming you're consciously aware and

able to explore the unconscious and for

the other experience lucid dreamers out

there that they know like I do that it's

utterly profound and also totally

underappreciated by psychology and

science but hopefully we're in the early

innings and someday people will really

see the revolutionary psychological tool

that lucid dreaming is what helps I'm

truly hope so I mean um it's so okay so

to kind of finish up here I mean

what-what would be one kind of tactic

and I know you mentioned looking at your

hands is that the primary way of kind of

reminding yourself that you're in within

a lucid dream you know I think for

beginners that's a good way to start

just every night before you go to sleep

look at your hands tell yourself tonight

my dreams when I see my hands will

realize I'm dreaming and just focus on

your hands let your eyes cross or do

whatever but just keep focused on them

but you have to do it every night just

like Ivan Pavlov rang the bell every

time he fed fed the dogs but eventually

your hands are gonna pop up in front of

you also you can do it during the day

just look at your hands briefly tonight

my dreams you see my hands are realized

I'm dreaming you know just as a reminder

but what you do during the day

oftentimes through what they call

continuity Theory continues in the dream

state and so if you do this enough this

kind of reality checking during the day

it'll appear in your lucid dreams and

also there's just the power of

suggestion tonight my dreams I'll be

more critically aware and when I see

something odd I'll realize I'm dreaming

just some suggestion like that also kind

of Prime's a pump and creates the proper

atmosphere for lucid dreaming yeah and

like you said I mean we spend a third of

our lives dreaming so it's it's a big

part of it I mean Robert working people

you know get your book find you and what

do you I mean what are you up to are you

teaching any workshops same time soon

yeah yeah all the Halloween weekend

I'll be in Ireland doing a dream yoga

lucid dreaming workshop and so you can

find out about what I'm up to at lucid

advice.com or you can of course find my

books at major bookstores independent

bookstores or at amazon.com but the

magazine that I co-edit is that lucid

dream magazine calm and so all those

places are ways that you can find out

what I'm up to and and kind of see

what's happening in the lucid dream

space very cool and I found I found your

book to be a huge resource I mean it was

it covers all the aspects of lucid

dreaming it was a good read oh thanks

thanks it's really something that I'm

totally passionate about and also I

would just want to remind people you

know that by now a bit and lucid

dreaming for 40 years and so my books

are written with a lot of experience

it's not something that I picked up

three years ago and written a book about

it is something I've spent decades of

working on but but I want to thank you

so much for having me this has been a

lot of fun yeah absolutely thank you so

much for your presence here this is the

human experience we will see you guys

next week or within a lucid dream if

you're having one thank you guys so much

for listening

you

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About the guest

Robert Waggoner

Robert Waggoner, Author, speaker and Lucid Dreamer, is past President of the International Association for the Study of Dreams (IASD). For the past ten years, he has been the co-editor of the online magazine, The Lucid Dreaming Experience, the only ongoing publication devoted specifically to lucid dreaming. A lucid dreamer since 1975, he has logged more than 1,000 lucid dreams.

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