Episode 155 – Stuart Lichtman – Mastering Emotions, Achieving the Impossible, The Art of Success

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become the architects of our lives we're taught we're gonna be getting into different techniques that you've been used to harness success so whether you are here with us live right now or if you're listening to the podcast version of this thank you so much for your

presence sincerely appreciate it either way sit back grab a drink and enjoy this conversation the human experience is in session my name is Xavier katana my guest for tonight is mr. Stewart Lichtman Stewart Lichtman is an author entrepreneur scientist and researcher

who teaches people how to harness the power of their unconscious mind Stewart's formal education includes undergraduate and graduate work at MIT in engineering psychology and artificial intelligence his master's work is in Applied Psychology and he did his

doctoral work in organization development and cross-cultural business he's also conducted extensive research on the unconscious and the intuitive basis of success and the individual and collective operation of the human mind stew it's a pleasure welcome to hxp

I'm really happy to be here at Xavier so thank you so stew I mean I I'm I'm really happy that you made the time to do this show there's there's so much that I want to get into but you know let just to begin things off I think is I'd really like to

establish a contextual basis of you know um how did you get started into this work what what brought you into this field I think that would be I mean because you because you were doing your working at MIT but then you kind of you switched gears and you started pursuing

this so what what change those gears for you well if I go back in my tea I remember that I was sitting with my advisor was also my mentor and I pointed out to him that even though he gotten me permission to study all areas of engineering there was something missing

that is none of them could model human beings he said we'll try psychology and economics and I turned out they were zero with not so I said I'm gonna do that he can laughed at me said sure and they took nine years but I did came up with a system that had to run on the

time the great computers the biggest supercomputers around because it needed so much processing power artificial intelligence and then the first application was in my doctoral work I did my dissertation on the unconscious decision making of venture capitalists

okay and I had been putting out a publication so I had contact had been heavy contact with venture capitalists in size at MIT the very first ones in the world or an American research and development in Boston and I got chummy with them okay okay so so let me let me

just uh let me just thread this a little bit a little bit more so what I want to know I mean this book this how to get lots of money for anything fast you co-authored this with Joe Vitale we've had him on the show Jack cannon field Canfield he he endorsed your work I mean

are you guys sort of friends I mean how did you how did you get I mean do you guys know each other how did that work out how did you how did you end up choosing Joe to sort of co-author this book for you with you well actually as Joe says in his introduction he just

avid little touches to make it more termi more friendly in fact my marketing guy was a friend of Joe's and he put us together he said Joe could do a great job editing and so wait a dear - damn with Joe editing didn't endure too much in that sense we did it easily we fitted

together extremely well Jagan kills an old friend of mine okay from a long time to gone for long time and he's a splendid guy so that's my relationships with them Jack he I've known him Wow okay at least 30 years 35 okay okay so these are people that you've you've

known for a long time and you know you thought you thought oh well you know Joe can help me sort of give this a little bit of a different approach or how can I say an angle maybe that that you weren't addressing initially with with this book

I would call it I didn't really change any of the content but he framed it with little catch phrases and so on okay okay so let's moving forward you know I I want to know let's talk about cybernetic transposition this is one of the I would say the key tenants of your work you

talk about this and what is cybernetic transposition and I mean why did you why did you call it why did you call it cybernetic transposition good question David my marketing guy said to me you got to come up with the name now when I was at MIT the founder of cybernetics

was there Norbert Wiener he was the prototypical absent-minded professor about once a week he forget where he parked his car and start screaming that it was stolen you know goggle-eyed glasses and so forth he wrote a book called the human use of human beings and that's why I'm

using word cybernetic because it really is about the union's of human beings you see there is a funny Kermit trip in that there's no operating manual for human beings were delivered without an operating manual mm-hmm and people don't understand how the system works sure

okay so so so you started this with the help of a near-death experience though I mean uh that's a bit odd right I mean perspective I was quintessentially dysfunctional as a kid I had Asperger's syndrome and couldn't really connect with anybody I just

wanted to go back to God I got my wish wouldn't have this near-death experience and that God has given a choice either I could stay in that place of incident love mercy and acceptance for a car to come back and complete what I had laid out as my life plan with the intent of

completing all my torment that's life time I chose the latter now I didn't realize some of the stuff I was getting in for about four or five years later I was meditating and spirit just gave me packets of information meaning when I was meditating

it just came in like right that's right just write this down I ended up the first day taking a thin line legal path a completely filling it same thing happened for the next four days and that was cybernetic transposition being a entrepreneur at heart I put together my

first training in a month at 250 people and the first try out of the box 76% I'm sorry 67 percent of them achieved the first seemingly impossible objective first try and in essence it's 10 years ago I got up to 100% consistently what it's about is consciously managing your

unconscious mind you think what I knew what Spirit gave me then wasn't awareness that the conscious mind is an observer all the doing is done by the unconscious nowadays 40 years later with functional MRIs they've demonstrated that what we think our conscious

decisions are actually made by our unconscious up to 10 seconds prior to when we think we're consciously making them okay so I mean would that negate free will then how do we have any personal responsibility if if you know if decisions and are already made for us

then why do I have to do anything right we get a choice what do you mean how do we answer your foot let me see if I can explain that's a really good question you have you ever stood by a massive river and watched all the stuff coming down it sure yeah and I understand well

there is a massive river running from the unconscious to the conscious mind which is called the stream of consciousness right now in that stream of consciousness there isn't just one possibility there are multiple possibilities and that's where free will

comes in okay okay so okay okay I get that okay so so let's let's frame this back into you know the realm of cybernetic transposition so when we're talking about cybernetics it really doesn't have anything to do with cybernetics whatsoever does it I mean

there's there's nothing cybernetic happening in your brain with with the within the mind is there I mean I'm asking well actually if you go into cybernetic modeling it points out that in even the simplest ordinary situation there are millions of possibilities let

me give you an example sure say you want to go in a picnic and you have a family they have to decide does everyone want to go or only some of them where we going to go was the weather is the weather good enough do we have the time do we have the food what food and we're

going to take and in that simple situation cybernetic analysis comes up with four million alternatives now the conscious mind of the most powerful conscious person the researchers have ever met and studied is able to long five things concurrently okay yeah

that's a women right for example look at the room you're in now that's three dimensions now see if you can simultaneously imagine that room at night and during the day that's four dimensions mm-hmm can you do that I mean I'm seriously not switching back

and forth okay okay very few people can do that that's only four things at once hmm see the conscious mind is not designed to match the complexity of the world okay the unconscious mind that has the 200 billion neurons which really some potentially analog and digital

computers with trillions of interconnections so dance that the internet interconnections I call that felt worked look which felt and that's just in the brain all the other other organs of the body are also involved in the unconscious okay so the

unconscious is perfectly matched with the complexity of the world I love that and that means that we have on maginot mode abilities in our unconscious and the audience I burn any transposition is to empower you to consciously tap into those abilities basically it involves

expanding the conscious mind into the unconscious so so making making the unconscious mind more accessible and more conscious that's all right yes indeed and also the soul the soul yeah the soul is a party God that is resident with us it's not a part

of our physical body but it's resident energetically and the soul holds your life plan the design of your life the old cybernetic transposition we use the soul to determine whether what you want to do is appropriate and for your highest good I knew you're gonna say

that so so I'm so there there's a sort of bouncing effect that happens where you're connecting into not only what you desire and what you want but also what your soul has determined as your life path and what is what's best for your life that's kind of

although the soul didn't determine it I hate to be complex but you determine before you're born I remember being with the Kermit board before I was born and designing my life designing my parents using my parents and so forth and I was kind of arrogant because when

you're on the other side everything things possible and you everything is loving so I designed a very challenging life so stew okay so just I love that I love the direction that you're going with that and we definitely dig into that a little bit

more so you know when we're talking about setting goals you know the process of setting goals because people do is all the time I mean we're in a new year or a new decade and you people are setting resolutions for themselves the different things that they want to

achieve what what do you find people are doing incorrectly the most because I mean we see people that you know attempt their goals and and that's all that that's all they kind of do is attempt them they never really succeed they never really lock it in is

there a single thing that you would say okay these people over and over and over this is what they're doing wrong I'll put a different way okay there are three steps only three steps can tell and conceptually to achieving what seems to you to be impossible and of course most

desirable goals are the ones that most people think are impossible so step one is to create an objective that is consciously perfect for you and also perfect for the major parts of your unconscious including their soul and how do you know whether it's perfect for

your unconscious that was many people intuitively sense it's perfect for you that's your unconscious talking your intuition is the way your unconscious communicates with the conscious mind normally it manipulates the body and over time you put names on those changes

in your body like I've got headache or well I can't trust that guy or I'm real excited what is going on is your unconscious is trying to get messages across now in this case of the objective if in fact it's aligned with your unconscious it will intuitively seem just right for

you okay okay okay if the excited enthusiastic okay step 1 okay just let me just bump in for a second please so let's just say that a person has the goal of making a million dollars that excites me gets me excited to make a million dollars I'm sure anybody

listening to this right now is excited by that right but how do you know I mean how can you feel that making a million dollars is the right thing for I mean could could it be used as an excuse that oh well it wasn't it wasn't part of my soul path you know so that's why that's

why I didn't you know manifest or I didn't create it because it wasn't it wasn't meant for me in some way do you understand does that make sense yeah that could be an excuse or it could be the truth what let me give you the other two so gaps and I think it'll become

clearer please so the first one is to set this target consciously it's perfect for you intuitively it's perfect for you and translate that into an oncologist target the second thing is to prioritize a target in your unconscious may or I started doing millions of things at once

running the body everything else and you need to make your targets stand out so then greater numbers of your unconscious time sharing slots if you want to put it that way mm-hmm are attributed devoted to achieving your target so prioritizing is

the second thing the third thing is to resolve the self-defeating unconscious habit patterns that would otherwise block you from achieving your target right and that's the one that it's a were most people fail okay okay I could I can see where that would

happen so let's let let's go to the first step let's let's talk about targets okay so in the book you talk about how there are different subconscious systems that that perhaps are working against each other like the left brain right brain midbrain

there they're competing with each other so how do we how do we get all these systems into a line so that you know we can target something accurately okay let's talk about sub first knowledge so functionally the unconscious is made up of stimulus response machines

functionally not little guys standing there doing things let me give you an example what's your favorite food pasta okay so let's say you look at the scale in the morning and you're 2 pounds over your set point wait you say I don't would i watch what I eat today and then

you walk into a restaurant any smell the best smelling marinara sauce you've ever smelled I mean wow and and you just go for it gobble down plate of that and we get through you say oh that one so good I feel overflow and I gained two pounds

today okay that is a function of a subpersonality the stimulus is the smell of the marinara sauce the response is gobbling it down hmm you don't really have much conscious control of that it's interesting if you try to constantly defeat your

unconscious and if I work around so the trick is to reprogram that subpersonality so that when you smell that delightful marinara sauce for example you check how full you feel and you say and you feel really satisfied already well I'll pass on at this time

and that all happens unconsciously once you set it up it just happens unconsciously okay does that make sense yes sir yeah let's let's hone in on that a little bit more okay so so then how do i understand how do I start to create agreement with that sub

personality that that I have how do i well the first thing is to talk to it yeah that's personally I teach people not trainees give it a try right now sorry I've got a sinus condition that gets me crushing every once in a while no problems there

so you see you were seeing photos I want you to focus on the center of your chest that's called the heart shock now yes sir now that is a point where from spiritual point of view the earthly and spiritual need it's where love is supposedly radiated from in unit lay

yang it's a point or one of those energies they just it's a point that naturally gets a lot of attention through the unconscious so focus there and say would my subpersonality who is making my voice sound so resonant please come forward okay

and something will instantly pop into your conscious mind hmm okay okay you want to take a chance and tell me what popped into your conscious mind um I don't know it wasn't like a thing it was more of like a I saw like a flash of light that happened that occurred right

now say to that flash of light are you might said personality that makes my voice resonant okay I'm getting an affirmative I'm getting like a yes okay that's the first step of word with subpersonality okay okay so just to reiterate so it's it's it's focusing on

the chest bringing your focus into the chest where the heart center is and and asking the questions there because that's where the dynamic of the divine occurs like with the soul and and love that's a place where the unconscious pays a lot of attention how about that

okay okay let's continue please okay now ask that's a personality what it's trying to do for you by making your voice so resonant okay do you feel comfortable telling me what it said yeah I mean I can share it it's I think it's saying something along the lines of you know

helping others that's well that's what I'll see see the trick is the unconscious puts everything at your conscious mind so whatever pops up is what's coming from it okay okay so if you are going to reprogram that's uh personality which in this case you

wouldn't normally do but let's since is working with you you'd write that down this job number one okay then you would say that sup personality what's matter you're more basic job and you can do that or I can give you a hypothetical let's get hypothetical with this okay so

maybe it says now well to make you very successful so write that down is job number two and then you say well what's your still more basic job and it says well to fill your joy and loving and then you say what's your still more basic job and it says to make your life

a paradise on earth Wow and then you say to it well what is your absolutely most basic job and it says to make you one with God Wow now the most basic job is always spiritual always loving acceptance joy God something that sort I just gave you a typical series that

might be the case I mean I know so what you do at that point is you say to the subpersonality would you like to take on that most basic job is your primary function and usually it says oh yeah on go for it okay then you say okay we're gonna offload the other jobs to you and

you come up with other sub personality to do jobs 1 2 3 & 4 so that the suppers now they can deal with its most basic job which is now paradise on earth and connecting you with God well most basic job is connecting you as God paradise on earth is not spiritual it is earthly ok

there's an important difference there but I'm focused on that because I just wrote a book about that I mean Stu I'm surprised because I didn't I didn't really expect you know the conversation I to go in this direction because I mean the title of

your book is what it is you know what I mean it's it's it's talking about money and to be completely forthcoming it feels a little bit click Beatty to be the way that it's titled so you know I didn't expect it to go this deep with you which I'm pleasantly surprised I'm

very very happy that you're talking about this so so okay okay so just let's just reset a little bit and bring it back together for our audience oh I forgot what do you wanna make a million bucks right okay now have you ever made a million dollars

not yet okay their readers are why you happy you've got the personality to make a million dollars that's clear oh that's for sure okay and that's the most important one but you haven't made it because your unconscious is not set up to do that let me give you an example

colonic restarted uber he was set up unconsciously to make a great deal of money Musk who turned pay down from worldventurer into big success was made up set up unconsciously to make a lot of money okay okay I could go on and on sure some people unconsciously set up to

do that most people aren't so it's a learned process so in the case of you making I'm not going to ask you to tell me but right down through yourself but most you've ever made in here sure okay now if you had to make that much money next year I mean it was survival mm-hmm

got wise how certain are you that you could do that without a doubt I mean I don't think it's an aspect of you know like making the money I don't know it's a bit complex with me I think but just for this for the sake of discussion is sure yes without a doubt okay then

you are in the one-percent category right away cuz most people would say no no you know they would have a block there yeah because there is most people have what I call an unconscious performance one that it's an unconscious women they can't go get past because

it's like a glass family you can't even see it fascinating okay so well let's let's make it a little bit more basic so blockers let's talk about the blockers that we have within ourselves that block this sort of progress that we're trying to make sure so you're

cutting using you as a guinea pig no problem that's fine okay have you ever had a fight with a relationship partner sure mm-hmm right and didn't it go something like this they said or did something and you went to list you want me to agree to this I mean yeah

okay yes yes that's what happens I'm trying to later okay most people would say yes and what happened in that hypothetical situation is your relationship partner get your hot button which is a trigger personal personality that reacted with anger okay okay

now you could work with that sub personality so that when your relationship partner does the same thing you react with loving acceptance mm-hmm I feel like what you said but I certainly understand your perspective and remember what you say I love you

okay you could choose that response instead of the block of response of nature anger some make sense yes sir it does so so when we encounter a block I mean what does that mean what is that what does that mean that we're I mean why would we be blocking ourselves why would we be

creating blocks for achieving you know success and dip on different levels and we live in a society that says it should be difficult to be successful you really have to work hard at it your chances aren't good anyway and have you do you have kids no sir okay

most people when they have kids will say you can't do that the kid said mommy I want to go outside and mommy says I can't do that till I'm ready because I want you to be safe now what the kid hears is you can't do that that's your unconscious now the kid can

react by throwing a tantrum if in fact the parent is susceptible to that kids were to be very good manipulators and if that works then you have an unconscious habit pattern when somebody says you can't throw a tantrum they should so far yes sir yeah so that's one way an

unconscious habit pattern can be established you are let's fast-forward 40 years let's say this kid name is Joe and Joe has a job working for somebody except that somebody is about to fire Joe because they're downsizing and Joe says I need the job I have a family

after I've got a home I've done a good job for you please don't fire me and the somebody is employee Joe says look I'm sorry you just can't keep the job we can of Ford and Joe oh habit pattern goes off what do you mean you can't afford it you can't afford not to have me do you

realize what I do and he goes into a tantrum mm-hmm that's the same own unconscious habit pattern from when he was a kid that worked to control his mother but I have run over a hundred companies and I can tell you that is best way to get walked out of the office

right and and also I feel like you're alluding to Joe in our example is going to a place of anger instead of a place of love and then there may be perhaps there's there's also a higher dynamic of you know a lesson like a lesson plan that you come here to learn all these

different things and once you demonstrate okay you have you know you've passed this level because you've reached this understanding of it then it's sort of unlocks for you the next level right well yeah okay and I mean I just I want to touch on this really

quick also you when you give a list of blocks and blockers they could be anything from you know headaches to fatigue two different things happening in your body that is creating a resistance to you performing this task you moving to sort of and it can also be

I don't understand I could never do math that's too complicated untier ever been absolutely exhausted you come home and there's a movie on the really intrigued you and suddenly you're filled with energy sure yeah it when the physical exhaustion it was an unconscious blocker

hmm and you see our natural most basic way of being is loving joy enthusiastic upliftment fulfillment and so forth anytime you're not experiencing that you're running into a block or a self-defeating unconscious habit that some baby comment from past lives mm-hmm

some maybe things you learned like Joe throwing a tantrum let me give an example you remember when you learn to drive a car I'm assuming if you drive the car you remember how challenging it was you had to consciously decide and manage each little thing out for do I turn the

wheel how much pressure do I put on the brake how much you know this is that the other right not when you drive the car it's automatic right yeah I just don't even think about that Freight that's because you've established a lot of successful unconscious habit better they

drive the car now let's take another unconscious habit pattern that's pretty successful you ever noticed that when you have a deadline you become hyper efficient as you approach the deadline mm-hmm okay in other words you get an awful lot done in a short time mm-hmm

now let's say you're automatically driving your car and for some reason this other encounters have that pattern of getting a lot done in a short time comes into play and you find yourself driving faster and then you see this flashing light behind you and you pay a lot of

money and have a lot of aggravation because you just got a speeding ticket so what was a very successful unconscious habit battered getting a lot done in short time becomes situationally a self-defeating one get you traffic ticket make sense yes

okay so the trick is managing things so you're successful unconscious habit patterns are applied in ways that achieve your successful I'm sorry suggest achieve what you want I love that if you did you ever see the movie the secret yes about your Patel and the other guys

yes I think and it happens that's because they're set up unconsciously to do that a lot of my life is like that too and and a lot of my students lives have become like that now we built something that I call success to success team it's like a

football team okay okay now this is comprised of the sub personalities that each created wanted her greatest successes in life it's funny that what may be a great a success for you you not look at all a great success to somebody else for example I used to kill twins

I couldn't keep a life playing around and now only have six plants sitting in front of me I talked and every day I enjoy them I feel extremely successful that's what my greatest successes having these plants thriving and happy so of course another my greatest success is

the day that somebody pretty 270,000 thousand dollar check in my net for sure that was a great success another great success was the first time I ever won won a sports car race I used to race Porsches and I beat my instructor oh he was so pissed off great

success one of my greatest successes is finding my wife Gloria using CT I had 32 characteristics one of which was a highly successful entrepreneur another one was practically perfect in every way thank you Mary Poppins and she's attending on 32 of those CTE what is

that cybernetic transposition I'm sorry lapsing into jargon sir no problem no problem just want to make sure that we're covering everything so so you take these subpersonalities seven subpersonalities that created your seven greatest successes and then you take

your suppers Naza created your greatest failures because if you think about it for a while in order to create a great failure which is the opposite of great success right the sub personality has to know it mentally what was a great success in order to create the great

failure so we just turned that around so the sub personality becomes a success expressions of personality we put all 14 of those together into a team and immediate when you become much more successful like the guys in the secret and they become much luckier because

walk is unconsciously generated success and one of the first tests I give my students is creating parking spaces you know I say go someplace where you can never get a parking space and before you start out create an imaginary experience of a space right where you're

going vacating just as you get there so you could just slide right into it and then ask your success team to make that happen and at the beginning it works about 90% of the time for people using their success team for me it works about ninety nine point eight percent so so

why would you say that it's it's you have a higher success rate percentage rate and I've been doing it longer okay basically if I didn't find a parking space there I would find the subpersonality that blocked it from appearing and I'd reprogram them and

I've had to do that with part of them and it just works okay so so from what I'm hearing is that inside of us there are these teams that we build out that are based on our greatest successes and are also in parallel our greatest failures and you call that a success

team and this one is not the greatest failures you got a repro in the subpersonalities that created the greatest failure so they clip using that knowledge of what is a great success so they now are creating great successes ok so so we're flipping the the failure

side of it into great successes how do we do that by the process i briefed you with before ok you remember your resonant voice a personality yes okay so we redress that to its most basic job at which point it is extremely powerful and totally positive then we

built a team of sub personalities to do positive versions of all the other jobs one two three four and we put those together into team and give them a job in this case it might be no matter what my health is my voice will be resonant clear and resounding okay okay

and then you anchor that in particular ways and from that time on the team does one functions automatically unconsciously okay so there's something that you use called the color process and that's very simple sometimes well let's take a headache

I'll give you a story I'm the Cardinal my wife wanted she is to like BMWs white BMWs I do not like white BMWs but you want to get in your car and I went with her to the BMW dealer I left her alone with salesmen so I wouldn't influence her it was a hot

day so there were two female salespeople in the mound standing there looking pretty wilted and I carried her in conversation that's not only guys it's pretty hot today the woman says it's not only Wow I've got a terrible headache and I said oh you wouldn't get rid the

headache fast and she said kind of skeptically yeah so letter through the colored process now in the comic process you in this case imagine what color the headache is hmm and yes if you doesn't come from your red way and you write it down then you

imagine that the headache has a liquid volume and yesterday how much water does it take to fill it up so let's say the headache was red it took two gallons to fill it then what's the temperature of the headache hundred and forty three degrees

and what's a sound it's making a really nasty whining sound okay now let's go through that again tell me what color it is now well now it's kind of a hazy orange how much water a gallon what temperature 120 sound okay let's go through it again what color is it

I can't find it it's no color it's invisible okay how much water and Adam well what's the temperature guess it's my body temperature what's the sound oh that's really nice to turn on yes and how's your headache it's gone now in the color process it's wildly

simple what you're doing you're unconscious already knows you don't want the headache you said that lots of messages it just doesn't know exactly what you mean by what you don't want so by concentrating on this headache in these ways what's a color what

like revealing what's a temperature what's the sound okay you're giving your unconscious focus for what you wanted to get rid of right and pretty quickly it does Wow the last part of that process you say what's a message that the headache was trying to give me in the

case of a woman it says go drink a glass of water mm-hmm she came back and she was just feeling the energy felt great hmm that's a color process now if you're trying to talk with a subpersonality and you get a blank you can do the color process on the blind and pretty quickly

they split you realize the sub person on is giving you an answer but it wasn't torn that in the way you could constantly understand and so it becomes understandable and suddenly are carrying on a back and forth conversation with this uh personality because you have

trained it to form that it's communication in a way you can consciously understand sure and they said yes so so you're giving these symptoms a sort of metric for your your unconscious mind to target and then remove yeah or turn into a communication or whatever right so

where does would that be an aspect of base reframing as well excuse me thanks for framing me it's a little different okay remember okay asked you whether you have ever how to fight the relationship partner let's say you did and you remember that fight

and as you or anybody else remembers that gun the situation the body will move into the state it was in during the fight so maybe you had your flight reaction going your adrenaline was going you're clenching your teeth and your shoulder done stuff or whatever

it might have been okay those body feelings as changes in the body are intimately tied in with that experience does it make sense yes so there's the body stores these sort of traumatic experiences and they become blocks well let's say that by having that flight

fight with your relationship partner you ended up with your relationship partner walking out which is not what you wanted to happen so that blocker cost you dearly but then what if you met someone after she left that was supposed to be in your life then wouldn't it be the

opposite would it be a success well sure but in the instant it wasn't or you wanted to hurry so in the instant you weren't moving consciously towards something you were running away from something and do you find that's never successful something that I find in my

life is that when I don't face something that is coming up as a block or something that I need to address differently it just repeats in cycles until I get it yes what's happening there I mean how can I reduce that cycle from you know lowering in

frequency or not occurring at all is there a way to come well you asked me about the base for training in pastry cream is one way of doing that in the base reframing in the basement framing you come up with five earlier memories of time when the same Blocker pattern

was operating going back to the earliest one being the earliest one that's appropriate for your eyes could you remember at that point then you use your marva sleep our forgive to hindsight which is underappreciated in the world to come up with a new version of that

early situation that is exactly the way you would have liked things to be so you read you retell the story so that it occurs differently in your memory in your imagination yeah until it's a tent I mean it's absolutely perfect and then you anchor that meaning you

fortunately imagine surrounding that imaginary experience of the ball of white white put it in your heart chakra save your chakra this is an example the way I'd like to always perceive experience greatly handle this kind of situation please make that happen in

ways that are for that is good of me and all concerned and you do that with each of the five memories then you pick out the things that you have intuitively put into those five perfect situations that make them all perfect you know fine bulk you have a

series of themes that keep coming up in this perfect refrain then you take the original situation like the knee-jerk reaction with your relationship partner and you remodel that but he makes sure consciously that that new perfect version includes all of those themes and

then you tell your unconscious this is the way I want you always to handle situation and you forget it except the next time the trigger came that it comes up that would have created a knee-jerk anger you unconsciously automatically react the way you have in your perfect

imaginary situation how important is the process of letting go not very important because that's a conscious choice and it's not gonna change the unconscious I mean but you you talk about it in your advanced super achievement techniques and you you talk about how to achieve

your objective you that letting go is incredibly powerful so I don't think I do actually know what I talked about is transforming your reaction so that becomes successful my apologies I must have written the question down incorrectly sorry so no problem it's uh

it's understandable but so see it can't it doesn't work to try to get rid of stuff it's much more successful to just transform that it's so easy you know the basement framing first time you do it it might take you 45 minutes usually takes me 15 minutes

and it's a permanent change that's pretty good so so it's more important that my apologies I misinterpreted that in your book somewhere but so so it's not more crucial that we let things go it's more crucial that we transform the relationship to those things yeah so

that they do what you consciously want and there's a check to make sure that were you conscious leave one is appropriately pretty high it's good okay and that brings you into alignment with your soul breacher and consciously breeze your unconscious agent lineman's

so that's what the whole deal is about when you're in a rainbow with a soul you let me enjoy loving arm in the ability in fulfilment and to me that's what success is I agree so how can we how can we be in that state all the time how can we be in that state of living to our

highest you know soul connection to our highest connection to God and ourselves all the time well that's a good question I have been meditating now or two hours a day to keep up my connection with God from the near-death experience and clearing everything and I'm kind of

getting close to that I'm on the 20 to the 26 of levels up into the heart of God and you can get close but while you're on the planet you're never going to get there whether you're in the earth even the great spiritual teachers of which there

are extremely few ever on the planet are human they make mistakes so the answer is you can get a good approximation in my coaching program there's a process that I teach called the great day process the career design gratae you design what would be for you a great day

and then you set up unconscious teams to implement that and if you keep a journal you suddenly realize that either all or nearly all your days match that specification the henceforth that's about as close I know you can get how important is repetition to all of this

process well repetition increases the unconscious priority think of a kid learning to write they repeat the movements developing muscle and small motor control and it takes repetition think of a and itself quarterback you know who is the best Peyton Manning or

who everyone as a hero what they do is almost impossible if you look at from the point of dynamics mechanics the ability to get a pass into the hands of a receiver running flat-out taking turns at up to five g's and treading within the each of the

sidelines is unbelievably complex they couldn't be done by artificial intelligence you know I was thinking about this you know what this week as I was going through this material and reviewing this book I was just thinking about how sort of primitive our connection to ourselves

is because we don't regulate our breathing and we don't regulate our heartbeat I mean if we were left to do that just those two things we would lose our minds like we wouldn't be able to navigate just those two simple seemingly simple things so you know it's so

important to have an idea I think of how important it is that we connect to the processes that that that demonstrate these you know these functions well let me tell you about an experience of mine about three years ago I was finding it increasingly difficult to climb stairs

I'd end up the top huffing and puffing and I strongly said maybe this has to do with my heart well my cardiologist had retired so UCT to find this great new cardiologists and for me at doctor's great if they have tremendous skill there are tremendous

that is mechanical skills because that's what medicine is they have tremendous communication skills they are loving and they let me take charge ok ok so I got this great cardiologist perk thing he did was to do an echocardiogram on me so you'd sound ways to look at the auto

technician doing it and I have to had this done maybe 50 times previously said you know I'm having a lot of trouble I can't really see your heart it appears are so much fluid in your lungs that I just can't see through it I said what do we do about that he said on

you tell the cardiologist he lickity-split Russia knee over to adjustment pulmonologist and he said uh-huh you have one bullet in your lungs he says I'm going to draw some of it off so he stuck a needle me in my back into mine wanted to pull down a water glass

full of fluid and I immediately felt a lot better in fact I kind of walked up jogging around his office he sent it to the lab and he says we're gonna have to get a biopsy so he sent me to a surgeon Ronettes guy named Ali who did a procedure that if on biopsy and three

days of pumping the rest of fluid out of my life no no in the hospital I hate hospitals I can tell you and and he kept saying what is the biopsy show and nobody would answer me finally on the third day I was beginning to think you know if they're not gonna be with the

biopsy hasn't many cancer so I you CT to create a perfect oncologist and on the third day he walked in he'd been referred by the pulmonologist and he was exactly what I wanted he says you got lung cancer it's small selling non-hodgkins the good news is

it's not the worst kind of cancer I said to him I had to test test one may I call you by your first name because the doctor who hides behind the title is not somebody I want rain and the second one was I said to do you want to be a member of my team I'm gonna do some things you

won't on stand until I explain them to you even so do you want to go along with that remember the team he said absolutely so we're on board David was my name then what happened was I had Stage four lung cancer I had a tumor that filled 40% of

my left lung which is kind of startling when you see a cat scan on the wine to show you that and they put me on chemo and so forth gets around the 14th month the tumors still growing in size so I say spirit in addition to what I've been doing with CT I said what do I do

about this and they said work with your basic cells now my spiritual teacher had taught me about my the basic selves they are analogous to the soul but on the physical level they built the body they control the body they run the body so I worked with my basic cells I have two

one male one female and when I first met them years ago they were like three or four years old now they're matured and I said let's heal the cancer and I explained I did research in cancer so I knew enough to explain to him what we had to do Longet sort of it was at the

end of the 14th month they took a cat scan and there was no cancer left it was completely gone Wow so you were able to connect in with yourself and to spirit as you termed it and and then the cancer was gone my basics helps too yeah my explaining to my oncologist as I went

along what I was doing and he was very supportive but he was blown away he said I've never seen anything like it so the intent by spirit on the fifth anniversary of the disappearance of the cancer I can write a book because there are a lot of things

that I discovered and used that are definitely not common knowledge or that you'll find anywhere else so maybe that'll help some other people yeah for sure I mean there's there's so many occasions I think that's just the definition of life where you're just

you're going to get hit by you know something that curves its way and enters your life and whether it's a near tragedy or in your escape or you know however you define that but I think the important part of your story is the connecting with spirit part you know and

that I mean with that I connect with that it's a nice place to be how important do it we're running out of time so okay so let me say something has been sticking up let me go back to achieving objectives I said there are three steps and the sauce that makes it

work is CT it's the operating manual that didn't come with us and I'd like to tell folks how they can get that book if they want it sure or how they can get okay if they want to go online they can get the book www my anything fast not finding fast

calm okay it's all one word lower case and in fact the system typing that transposition will teach them to get just about anything that one pretty sense okay the now for people who really want to go for it and achieve a higher level of it I have my super chief or coaching

program the SACP and in that the participants who do at least most of the assigned work have a literal 100 percent success rate first try at doing their seemingly improving the seemingly impossible objectives what might that be finding a perfect partner and getting

interpersonal relationship with them making five hundred fifty nine thousand that was $1.00 that's one person excuse me are getting rid of cancer that's another person and that one if they want to check that out I've got a highly descriptive page my SACP

superachiever coaching program my SACP dot-com okay we'll make sure we will for sure make sure those are those are available for anyone who needs to access them there's a couple things I wanted to ask you before we wrap up students really quick time tripping what what

exactly is time tripping how does that work in well it I think I ripped that off of Vonnegut in one book he said I was time tripping and I like the name in fact it's simply a process of making it easier to get to achievement of your target so in step one of the three-step

process of achieving seeing impossible things you set a target you're here and the target is in the future now if you use a Google Maps it will show you the fastest way to get from point A to point B contri P is kind of doing what Google Maps does you pick three

I'm sorry three intermediate dates before your end point cake when you're supposed to achieve your objective and in each of those you imagine that you're having a perfect day you take whatever pops up in your imagination and you make it perfect say what pops up is I get

home from work it was a really tough day I'm really tired now you change that into I got home from work feeling very successful having really handled some challenging things extremely well and I'm filled with fulfillment and enthusiasm okay so you say doesn't

example out of the way I want seems to be on day one then the next day in the imaginary future you might have went out to dinner at this great restaurant everything was great except the waiter spilled soup in my lap so you change it and - everything is great the waiter is

fine he handled everything with the plum and I left there with my day saying for your suit looks great you look wonderful or whatever my pain you saying this an example the way I want it to be so you create examples of perfect days starting

with what your unconscious gives you so give me an experience on take one and so on bring that simply directs your unconscious to connect one perfect day to another perfect day to another perfect day all in the direction of achieving your objective and based on

empirical results it certainly speeds the process and makes it easier see I'm very I'm really results based if it works keep it it doesn't work find something else yeah stewed I mean I appreciate your time so very much I think everyone listening to this right

now has really enjoyed this I was really surprised by the direction that it took and I'm I'm really glad for that the book is called I mean there's so much that that we didn't cover completely I think that that I encountered in this book that I wanted to talk about just

before I close do is there anything that you want to you know address the crowd with other than you know the link for the book which we will we will put out there for sure but I just I just want to give you a chance to you know address the crowd if you'd like to yeah sure

well we named the book how to get lots of money for anything fast because most people have been taught by a culture that if you have money your life is going to be perfect it's not true as long as you have enough money above that it's just chips but it's a good title to

get people interested because most people think that money is going to make them like perfect when they get into it they realize that it's general operating manual for making your life perfect that's her thing second thing is I just finished writing

a book called the second wake-up call that I'm hoping I would get published in print and make very successful because it's about changing our headlong rush toward Armageddon which we are engaged in right now into making our life a paradise on earth

and that's really important so when this comes out I ask your listeners to get the book and practice it is a how to tree the world but it was entirely given to me my spirit third thing is that I have another attorney at another book called the

super entrepreneur attorney and a book on how to be a highly successful entrepreneur that how did one venture that let's put it it should be basic reading for any aspiring entrepreneur the book is only available to participate in the training the trainees

called the super odds win during training you can find it online WWE are entrepreneur.com I have really enjoyed dog we got like your questions I'm sorry we don't have more time to explore them more fully yeah I mean it's been about 90 minutes so we went through it guys

that's the that's the show my guest is Stuart Lichtman and the book is called how to get lots of money for anything fast I mean he's got a whole series of different books that kind of cover this vein of thought and if you're looking for something to help you change the way

you think when you perceive the world you're gonna want to check this stuff out so I highly recommend it thank you guys so much for being here with us today you will definitely be back next week with another episode thanks so much